Let's start at the beginning. What attracted you to your FI when you met? Does he have nice eyes, a sexy smile, or a rock hard body? Or was it more of something he *did* when you met? Maybe he touched your shoulder and you got goosebumps, or he whispered something in your ear that turned you on. Whatever it was, tell us what first drew you to your FI back in the day.
For me, I was turned on by my FI's confidence (which I later learned was mostly for show, lol). He wasn't afraid to stand close to me, touch my arms or back, etc. I also liked his facial hair, I have a thing for 'scruffy' guys. Not TOO much hair, I don't need a full grown beard or anything hah. But a bit of stubble is always a good thing IMO!
haw4
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I didn't like FH in the beginning. I thought he was cute, but the first time we met, he was drinking and being obnoxious. I only went out with him because I had nothing to lose. Our first date though, there was a huge rain storm and he came straight from work and he was just so cute! He was running in the rain, and he was just dressed so well. And the conversation was great too!
After dating, I learned that the suit was only for work and he has pretty bad style, haha!
Alimm729
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FH isn't like, typical cute, I guess. But I honestly don't know what it was when I first met him, I thought he was SO cute and he smelled sooooooo good (he still does). We met at work, and it was my first day and the asst manager was walking me around introducing me to everyone and she was like, this is the lab guy and he barely even looked up from what he was doing to acknowledge me and I specifically remember being like, he will be mine oh yes, he will be mine. LMAO! Aaaannndddd, 12 years, 1 kid later - here we are FINALLY getting married. lol. Let it be known, when I want something, I WILL get it
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Posted by Alimm729
FH isn't like, typical cute, I guess. But I honestly don't know what it was when I first met him, I thought he was SO cute and he smelled sooooooo good (he still does). We met at work, and it was my first day and the asst manager was walking me around introducing me to everyone and she was like, this is the lab guy and he barely even looked up from what he was doing to acknowledge me and I specifically remember being like, he will be mine oh yes, he will be mine. LMAO! Aaaannndddd, 12 years, 1 kid later - here we are FINALLY getting married. lol. Let it be known, when I want something, I WILL get it
That is freaking adorable, lol.
For us, we met so briefly initially, when we were out with a group of friends. I remember he had soft hands when we were introduced. Like you mentioned, he smelled so good and still does to this day (I love his natural scent but he has a large cologne selection to boot). What I loved was how comfortable I felt around him. Right from the start.
When we met in college I was dating a friend of his. I remember thinking he was very fun and laid back but nothing more than that. Fast forward 6 years to our first date, i was so attracted to his beautiful blue eyes and the way he carried himself so confidently.
Vilardi82
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I saw my FH on my first day of my first job my senior year of High School. I didn't actually speak to him but I walked by and was like ohhh who's that guy he's cute. There was no distinct feature that stuck out he just caught my eye. He trained me 2 days later and the flirting began lol.
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for me, we truly met as friends only, for many reasons, but we always 'bubbled' as we like to say. there could be 50 people there and we would always end up talking and laughing and getting each other. before it was even fathomable that we could be together (im 9 years older than him), we always felt super close and i always thought of him like a soul mate. not in the 'in love' sense, but that we knew each other already in another life. we are 100% best friends and i couldnt imagine my life without him! once i 'fell' for him and admitted it to myself, i was attracted to everything LOL! i still look at him at times and get that butterfly feeling. but his smile gets me every time. (and that fact that he is hilarious)
JaimeLin
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**QOTD 4/22/14**
I thought FH was sooooo sexy! He had these awesome arms and shoulders. I have a thing for shoulders (now he's got that flabby look going on haha.) I actually told him that when I saw him at a bar in college. I let him know he was 'dead sexy' and should call me. I told my friends this one I could see marrying I was just so attracted to everything about him.
Beebs1616
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I love reading your stories! So cute. My FH came to a mutual friend's party all scruffed out but lucky for him, it was just what I like- camo shorts and a beard. That's all it took to hook me. Our first conversation, he yelled at me but we'll let that slide. I texted our mutual friend that night that I thought my FH was cute and we had our first date the following week :)
Alimm729
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Posted by Beebs1616
I love reading your stories! So cute.
I love reading them too!!
Chels
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From when i first met FH i could tell he was sweet and that's what attracted me to him. Everything from the way he use to talk to me and try to make small convos to holding my hand. It funny cause we often talk about this same question all the time.
