Qotd 5-6-11

Although the wedding nightmares haven't started yet, I do panic that aspects of the wedding are going to go wrong.


What are some of the wedding nightmares you have had?


Or (for people who haven't had any)


What do you fear will go wrong on the big day?




Happy Friday xo

Mine this week was insane

No food
fH's family slept through it
Wndowless small room
Uninvited guests
No tables


I had another one recently where I went to get a trim 2 weeks before the wedding, and they gave me bangs

Also one where the ring bearer showed up in a plaid suit

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Posted by IrishAli

I fear that FHs family will cause drama

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Oh yea, this too ...

I dreamt that our photog forgot to come, they didn't announce us at our reception, the people who worked at our venue kept asking other people what to do, no one asked me, my mom showed some horrendus video on a big screen that had nothing to do with us... and worst of all, my aunt & uncle decided to surprise us with uplighting, but they are Mets fans so it was only blue & orange!!

I woke up like NOOOoOoOOoOoOoOOOoOoO!!!!!! hahhaa

For some reason my nightmares always have to do with my flowers being wrong, my hair and makeup being terrible, and me being EXTREMELY late. I've never had a wedding nightmare where I actually ended up getting married at the church or attended my reception.

I have been having wedding nightmares before I was even engaged. They always consist of the same thing generally. My reception is NEVER at a place that I would have it and people and myself are dressed in jeans.

Oh and as an addition, the last one I had the flowers were COMPLETELY wrong and it held up my ceremony which was a first in my wedding nightmare count.

UGH.

I've only had 1 nightmare- but it was a doozie! Nobody had their hair or makeup done- including me, we forgot to break the glass at the end of ceremony, forgot the unity candle and cake serving set, and FH was like 'whatever'

My true-life fear is FH's family. They have a different view of how this wedding is supposed to happen. I am not jewish nor OTB (Off The Boat), so some of the traditions I want they do not understand (and therefore do not want to do them). Also, since FIL paid for the photography, it is with a company I am not comfortable with- and its ONLY ONE PHOTOGRAPHER (which makes me think they are going to miss moments). I offered to pay for the second one (its only an extra $750), but FH said his parents would be offended if we did...***?!?!?!?

i've had plenty! they seem to focus on the following:

1. my dresses are too big
2. my hair/MUA never comes
3. my guests are bored and leave early
4. the RH is a disaster

hopefully none of these will happen!

I always have dreams that it's my wedding day and not everything is done.
also have dreams that my hair and make-up aren't done and I have to do it myself.
Anddd I had one dream that my dress was missing so I just didn't go to the wedding!

The ones that have HAPPENED ALREADY:

1) My BM's dresses (separates) came in with the tops in a different color than the bottoms

2) When I ordered my invites, the company's security system was hacked and my cc info was leaked

3) The DJ just sold his business to another company

4) The hotel forgot to put our block of rooms in the computer so when my stepmom called they didn't have the room block

5) My FH wanted to use his grandfather's wedding band but now his dad can't find it

The ones that I worry about:

1) The limo getting lost and things running late (I hate being late to ANYTHING)

2) The best man forgetting the rings

3) The divorced parents (all of them) not getting along

4) A HUGE hurricane on the day of the wedding

I did have a dream that my FH shaved his beard the day of the wedding and I HATED him without it!!!!