Ok so I was wondering... people say that marriages get very day in and day out...same ole same ole...
I hate hearing this because I am so excited, as I know that you all are too. So I was thinking...
What will you do to keep the spark in your marriage??
Oh la la hehe
evewedsjc
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FH gets all excited when I pretend to be excited about his interests....i watch Kung Fu movies with him and anime crap and act sooooooooo into it...you could just see he loves me a little more when i lay it on thick lol...
secretly i am starting to like that stuff....
branflake1229
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I think if we keep trying new things together and keep life exciting and spontaneous, we'll avoid the same ol', same ol' feeling. Also, I know a lot of people stop saying 'I love you' after they've been married for a while. People never get tired of hearing that!
krislee316
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well I hate to say it but u do fall into a daily routine I've been with FH for over 10 yrs
I often send him a cute text message or leave a note around the house or in his lunch he loves when I do that
branflake1229
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Oh yeah! FH leaves me little notes too! When I was looking for a job, he'd make these little signs on the computer that would say things like, 'Good luck' or 'I know you can do it!' And then when I finally did get a job, he put one up that said, 'Yay! Working Mommy (Mommy to our dogs!)! Yay!' with a picture of a woman in a business suit throwing up money. It definitely made me smile
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Well i think doing different things in & out of the bedroom is important. Keep it new & exciting. Also for me & FH we love to travel & i think experiencing new places, foods, people will keep it fresh with new things to always talk about. I know when children are invovled it can get monotonous, but they also add to the new. Seeing them develope their first step first word etc. All of that will be so cool. Once they are old enough to travel with us we are outta here! lol lol
We love each other & we will always find away to keep it young fresh & fun!
beram63
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*go on dates (quality alone time as a couple) * find your sexually adventurous side
JJC
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well...the first few years it should be easy because we want to buy a house and start a family and all that good stuff...its later on when the routine gets worrisome...but honestly....a routine doesnt scare me! I'd rather a routine with the man who i truly believe is my soulmate then total change and excitement every day....I am 31 and he is 35...too much excitement may hurt in a few years.....
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Posted by branflake1229
Oh yeah! FH leaves me little notes too! When I was looking for a job, he'd make these little signs on the computer that would say things like, 'Good luck' or 'I know you can do it!' And then when I finally did get a job, he put one up that said, 'Yay! Working Mommy (Mommy to our dogs!)! Yay!' with a picture of a woman in a business suit throwing up money. It definitely made me smile
AWWWWWW that is soooo cute YAY FH
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Posted by JJC
well...the first few years it should be easy because we want to buy a house and start a family and all that good stuff...its later on when the routine gets worrisome...but honestly....a routine doesnt scare me! I'd rather a routine with the man who i truly believe is my soulmate then total change and excitement every day....I am 31 and he is 35...too much excitement may hurt in a few years.....
This is true Hahhaha
fabulousmady
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Date Nights
little34
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FH and I have been together 12 years so it is as if we are already married. I have to say there has never been a dull moment....we really try to get out and do as much as we can... we are always looking for fun things to do and new places to go and we are always talking talking talking. We also act like total a$$es in front of one another so it still feels like we are kids and that is awesome...
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Going out every once in a while
Keep it interesting in the bedroom
I give FH cards every so often and I leave notes or hidden messages in his lunch. EX. I gave him pistachio nuts for lunch yesterday a I wrote on the ziploc bag 'I'm nuts 4 you' Corny but cute
flairforfashion
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We always have date nights, we travel a lot and try new things, and we love dining. We also like to go out and have fun together which I think helps.
jgourdain
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We have been together for 8 years and we have lived together for about 5. Sometime it is routine but we are best friends so it works. Also, I said we have to have a date night at least 2 times and month and a family night also.
jgourdain
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Yes that works also!!!
Brendanzgirl
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I think if you keep the other in mind and do special things to show you care it doesn't matter if your daily lives are same ol same. We are very lively people and enjoy traveling. This will help to break up any same ol same... *Best tip I've gotten from Grandma LOL Keep your sexlife healthy and try new things! WOOWHO
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I think by keep life exciting and spontaneous and to change it up every once and a while, like surprise FH with a great dinner and you are waiting for him in a sexy getup, something out of the usual will keep the sparks flying!
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Posted by jgourdain
We have been together for 8 years and we have lived together for about 5. Sometime it is routine but we are best friends so it works. Also, I said we have to have a date night at least 2 times and month and a family night also.
My thoughts exactly! We've been together over 9 years and living together for about 7 - date night definitely helps keep things alive! Plus, it never hurts to try new things, if you know what I mean
PROBM
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remeber distance makes the heart grow fonder... we keep it spicey after all these years by taking solo trips away for a weekend etc...there is nothing better than coming home to the one you love
