How is everyone doing on this gross morning ? Where the heck is the sun !!!!!
So I saw this question on one of the other boards and thought it was a good qotd.
What do you think is going to be the hardest thing to adjust to with FH once you are married ???
* I think that the hardest thing is going to be laundry...... we dont live together official but I stay at his house. So I think that when we official move in its going to be crazy with laundry. I have OCD, Everything has to be cleaned before I go to bed, the dishes,table, etc. He is clean but not how I am. I will have to drill it into him LOL
deanna225
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i think the hardest thing i will have to adjust to is fhs snoring. when he sleeps over my house we can not sleep in the same room. he snores so bad.
deanna225
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Posted by MrsSoto
ok im gonna get a little sentimental or rather just serious, lol. since we live together already, nothing will change with that. i think the biggest change and adjustment for me will be when we have a bad fight (hopefully never but lets be realistic), that i wont turn to 'lets break up'. i dont really do that anymore but i used to fly off the handle and talk breakup and i realize that once married or even now, things need to be worked through a lot more then just resorting to saying that, even if it is just out of anger. i know that divorce is a very serious thing and shouldnt been thrown around like that.
i do that sometimes too
bubberflys
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We've been living together for almost 2 years so I can't think of anything. I do think the calling each other 'husband' and 'wife' as well as using my new last name will be the oddest things to do!
Nina1010
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Posted by Lsorrent
Probably getting FH to call me his wife, lol. He still calls me his girlfriend, not his fiance. But I guess after 9 years of calling me his girlfriend, change doesn't come easy
We've been living together for almost 3 years now, so those little quirks are out of the way for us.
I totally agree... the wifey part will be weird. And signing my name....his last name will be weird. LOL. My nick name is my initials...and everyone calls me by them. So it may be an adjustment. Everything else is pie.
