How is everyone doing on this gross morning ? Where the heck is the sun !!!!!
So I saw this question on one of the other boards and thought it was a good qotd.
What do you think is going to be the hardest thing to adjust to with FH once you are married ???
* I think that the hardest thing is going to be laundry...... we dont live together official but I stay at his house. So I think that when we official move in its going to be crazy with laundry. I have OCD, Everything has to be cleaned before I go to bed, the dishes,table, etc. He is clean but not how I am. I will have to drill it into him LOL
Lsorrent
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Probably getting FH to call me his wife, lol. He still calls me his girlfriend, not his fiance. But I guess after 9 years of calling me his girlfriend, change doesn't come easy
We've been living together for almost 3 years now, so those little quirks are out of the way for us.
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To be honest, absolutely nothing. We own a home together, been living together over 2 years. I even call him my husband sometimes b/c I feel like we are married. We already have a little family, 2 cats and 1 dog. So I'm not expecting anything to change.
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Probably having to start sharing household duties!! It's going to be a war trying to get him to do dishes if we dont have a dishwasher...And cleaning the bathroom??!! EEK lol We are already like a married couple, only difference will be the paper making it legal and having to spilt the cleaning lol
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i dont think it will be difficult, but the biggest change will def. be moving in together, because both of us currently live at home still
angel1219eyez
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thats a really good idea and im not sure...i think the main thing would be laundry...when i do laundry i do it in different loads according to whites lights darks jeans and sweats...dnt know if any of you girls do that but i know i can get alil anal and FH doesnt do that...he throws alllll the clothes in togheter in one load and it drives me crazy!!!
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my FH and I are hoping to move in together at the end of the summer.. so hopefully by the wedding we'll be used to living together and getting married will be the easy part!! lol
once we live together though it is probably going to be hard to get used to his sports stuff all over the place.. when we get a house i'm going to have to invest in a 'man cave'
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i think food and dinner will be a big adjustment. but im kinda looking forward to it.
we both live at home. i buy a lot of food out and hardly ever have time to cook (i usually get home after 8 or 9 or later). and when he comes home, he is used to eating his mom's good homecooking.
so i know that will be a big adjustment. but we are looking for a place closer to my job, so theoretically i should be home at a better hour...so i guess i can cook. lol
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Posted by Lsorrent
Probably getting FH to call me his wife, lol. He still calls me his girlfriend, not his fiance. But I guess after 9 years of calling me his girlfriend, change doesn't come easy
We've been living together for almost 3 years now, so those little quirks are out of the way for us.
this is my exact response.
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Posted by christine2010
Posted by Lsorrent
Probably getting FH to call me his wife, lol. He still calls me his girlfriend, not his fiance. But I guess after 9 years of calling me his girlfriend, change doesn't come easy
We've been living together for almost 3 years now, so those little quirks are out of the way for us.
this is my exact response.
yeah i agree to this as well.
I would also add that maybe finances will be somewhat different. As of right now we have most of our money separate in our own accts with one joint acct for wedding $$. However, when we are married I think we will have to get used to pooling more of our money together .
mzmahagony
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Well seeing as though all of my friends and family live in Ny and we will be living in Florida, I the hardest thing for me is to be without my loved ones.
chrisandletizia
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I don't really think anything will be different in our relationship
probably it will take me some time to adjust to seeing his hand with a ring...that's actually exciting!
T E R I
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I don't think anything will change, FH already calls me his wife, so he has that part down
AdriandSteve
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Me cooking! lol
I can't, and FH cooks.
We don't live together so it'll be adjusting to everything.
MrsSoto
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ok im gonna get a little sentimental or rather just serious, lol. since we live together already, nothing will change with that. i think the biggest change and adjustment for me will be when we have a bad fight (hopefully never but lets be realistic), that i wont turn to 'lets break up'. i dont really do that anymore but i used to fly off the handle and talk breakup and i realize that once married or even now, things need to be worked through a lot more then just resorting to saying that, even if it is just out of anger. i know that divorce is a very serious thing and shouldnt been thrown around like that.
mrsdraskin2009
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That we're legally stuck with each other
I really don't know what will change. We have been living together for over 5 years, money is joint, bills are joint...so I am excited to see if anything feels difference once we're married!
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hmmm... I feel like we have always acted like a married couple, so don't think much will change. I think it will be hard to adjust to having one bank account, but im old school and don't believe either of us should have a seperate account...
MikesBride2B
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I don't know that anything we'll change...we'll have been living together for a year at that point.
The only thing that will probably change is that we'll (hopefully) go through the process of me legally adopting FSD.
jayepyt
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nothing really hummmmmmmmmm i dont think so lol
emc282rjm
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Probably splitting the household responsibilities. I don't officially live with FH as of now, but I definitely spend 5 nights out of 7 there. It's going to be an adjustment to get a little routine going.
