Good morning my fellow future brides!!!!! It's a beautiful day and I hope you all get to enjoy some of it!! Thanks again to Amy for choosing me this week, I'm so excited!!!
Today's question actually came from a conversation I had with my MOH the other day...
If things had been different and FH hadn't proposed to you...would you have proposed to him?! How would you do it if money and location were NOT an issue? And would he have taken you seriously or laughed it off as a joke?
Burhart1111
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I def think that if a few more years went by and FH still hadn't shown any desire to propose...I might have thought about it. I think it would have been more of an ultimatum than a proposal though haha.
If money and location weren't an issue, I would prob take him to Ireland (where we got engaged!) when his favorite musician, David Gray, was there touring, and I'd get him to sing our song and find a way to do it during/after the song. He wouldn't say no to David Gray right? Haha...
FH would def, absolutly, 100% laugh and NOT take it seriously. He was just raised to believe that the man does the proposing, so he would def not find it funny if I did something like that, esp if it was in public!!
kedra5
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Mine is very similar!! FH LOVES david gray so I wdve prob reached out to David Grays people to see if we could arrange something. Maybe have him call out FHs name and have us come up on stage and I'd do it there. FH would prob be SO mad but how cd he be after I got him on stage to meet DG??? Hahaha.
allornil
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Yay! Your 1st question!
Hmm well we've been talking about being married forever. So i think FH would have thought it was cool but he'd still want to be the one proposing.
If i had unlimited funds i would have Peter Cullen from the transformers (optimus prime) record a message asking FH to marry me and i would have the movie studio animate it. Then i would have rented the theatre to show the movie to him and have cullen walk out after to meet him. FH would love that!
NellieBellie32
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i def would not have proposed to fh....if he didn't propose to me i wouldve thought he didnt wanna be w/ me.....
but if roles were reversed i def wouldve proposed to him at like a ranger game
DCgirl82
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I would not have proposed to FH. If he didnt propose eventually I would have asked him if he wanted me in his future and what his plans were at that point. However if I was going to do a proposal I would prob pick some historic mansion because thats what he LOVES! He loves mansions, castles and all that stuff
SimHawk8
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I would not have proposed to my FH no matter what that's not my style but I did let him know I don't plan on being anyone's girlfriend forever.
MrsTarricone2B
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I wasn't in a rush to get engaged because I'm a lot younger than FH but i do want kids before I'm 30 so if I was like 28 and he still hadn't proposed then I definetly would have lol.
Hmmm...FH loves the Giants so I would've done it at a game. Maybe had it written on the big screen. That would have been hilarious and he probably would have loved it because he's an attention ***** and loves being in the limelight lol.
xoabxo
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i wouldn't have... i would have started to do crazy things to make sure he knew i wanted to things like idk tape photos of rings and dresses on the fridge and his beer bottle, make here comes the bride my ring tone, pretend to talk in my sleep about getting married ... lol just kidding i would sit FH down and stomp around him with my hands on my hips and say ARE YOU EVER GOING TO ASK ME TO MARRY YOU???
aquag12283
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I don't know if i would propose to him but i guess if he waited to long I would have. If I proposed I would probably do it at Yankee stadium because he is a huge yankee fan and would love it there!
suzie411
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I don't think i would have proposed. And IF i hadddd too. . . . .I have no idea what I would do. haha.
geez. . .now that I'm thinking about it. . .the guy has a lot of pressure put on him about proposing!!!! We should all go kiss our men and say thanks!!! BUTTT now we are all dealing with the details of planning a wedding and possible drama.
ohhhh, there's no winning! ha
Jsquared
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ummm.... i would never propose to fh. I would most definitely and unfortunately have to end it if he never popped the question. My friend is dealing with this right now.. her bf of 5 yrs is never going to pop the question and everyone knows it, even her.They are not young either.. I would not deal with it.. But thats me.. i firmly believe if he wanted to marry you, he would ask you. Period.
If I was in a dream world LOL and had to I would ask him at a car show of something like that.. he loves cars..
LaBellaVita622
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Posted by DCgirl82
I would not have proposed to FH. If he didnt propose eventually I would have asked him if he wanted me in his future and what his plans were at that point. However if I was going to do a proposal I would prob pick some historic mansion because thats what he LOVES! He loves mansions, castles and all that stuff
you're so friggin cute I love you lol..
I def would not have..after being insane with my ex for not proposing after 5 1/2 years, and wanting it so bad I would never put myself through that again..if he didn't want to be with me forever than he wouldn't be the one for me. I don't want to feel like I have to force anyone to be with me if you want to be with me put a ring on it! and he did!
