FH and I have similar taste, so what usually ends up happening is i suggest something and hes like 'yea! thats awesome!!' Haha, but he wants to know what we are doing, I don't think he wants to just show up.
this is how my FH is also - he def wants a say, but I'm the one doing all the research and then he picks from what I've narrowed down....so far he's been to all the appts with me
This. FH has been involved with every decision. I have done most of the research and then I will go to him with what I came up with, pics, etc. and we decide from there. So far he was most opinionated about the invites. He chose the font (because he thought most were boring) and the verbage. Everything has been really easy so far. Fingers crossed!
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FH Has been helping with everything! He is very involved. He tries to go to all appts with me unless he has to work.. The only one he said I could handle on my own is the Florist haha he doesnt care about the type flowers.
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FH is in between - he will let me do whatever within reason. i always make sure he is in agreement with me before booking anything, but he jsut tells me - wahtever y ou want.... BUT there are certai things (channa plaque for example) that he is soo picky with.. colors and fonts etc..weirdo!
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Not involved.. He only cared about a few things. Out door space, a cigar roller, and MY DRESS... he doesnt want to see it on me, but he wants to the dress, which is fine with me, and he is the #1 person i want to impress... lol...
itbroi805
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FH is pretty involved...I am really good at convincing haha, but he's kind of laid back about it...I drag him to all the appts!
CrazyLove11
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FH wants to go to every appointment and is constantly asking me if I thought about this yet, or that yet! He wants to be involved in every step of the way! but not quite a groomzilla yet!
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I was told : whatever you want, the only thing I want is a Sinatra singer, and chocolate fountain. Hubs would come to appts and be involved, but he is very distracted, he has wayyy to many hobbies!! Grrr.
NellieBellie32
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hes basically a show up and smile guy but im trying to include him in everything but he has no opinion and doesnt care about anything......which makes it kinda hard
xoabxo
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FH has been involved in EVERYTHING from my dress to invitations more than me at times
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When we 1st got engaged I really thought FH would only want involvement with the RH and the DJ..I was wrong he has come to every appointment with me (except 1 which was not someone we booked anyway).
So he is not a groomzilla he definately wants to be involved
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FH is definately involved in EVERY step of the process. He has an opinion about EVERYthing. He's been to and made every appointment and has actually been a great help. I hope he doesn't become a groomzilla though.
He's this way because for his first marriage they were married on a cruise ship and a wedding planner did all of their work. And that ended in flames, so he wanted a say in the marriage that's going to last.
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My FH is pretty involved. Sometimes he can be a a groomzilla but it's nice to have his input.
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I do all the research present the choices and we go from there. He's pretty easy going with it all but I felt bad making him come to all the appointments and was always like you have to come to that one but I think he knows it made me happy to have him at all of them so he came.
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Fh is involved to a point..as long as it doesn't cost a lot he will go along with it! But since mostly everything in a wedding cost a lot, he gets a headache real quick! Haha
Mostly he cares about his tux, the grooms gifts, his shoes, the honeymoon and the venue! He loves Chateau Briand
