****** QOTD 9/22/09 ********

Ummmm......great ques!

1). I can't say there was one particular thing that made me realize he was the 'one'. I wasn't even looking for another relationship since I had just ended 4 yr relationship. He made me smile and laugh. He made me feel sexy, wanted and important. A few years b/f FH came into my life I had a life altering tragedy change my life forever. FH made me feel like there was still a life to be led and enjoyed. I realized VERY quickly that I wanted and needed him. I have been very fortunate in the 'man department' of my life. Including FH I have dated 4 wonderful men. With each relationship I grew and learned things, all four men and relationships were very different. FH is, I think , collectively different for my ex's b/c he is the only one that has ever made me feel so much passion, love and an amazing sense of home. I think that we both were looking for what the other had to offer so it worked out very well for us, obviously!

2). I am a BIG believer in Fate & Destiny. I do happen to believe that we still have control over our fate.

For ex: if I know that I want to turn left and I sit and think about it over and over and each time I think left is the correct direction for me BUT my friend tells me to go right and I do it. Now what ever was waiting for me at that left hand turn, I believe will cross our paths after a few more lefts.

Not sure that makes sense to every one but thats how I see it. I have NO DOUBT that FH & I are meant to be together. We went to High School together and he used to flirt w/me and I wasn't into it b/c I thought he only wanted to touch my boobies....
Anyway he pissed me off one day in HS & I graduated & never saw him again. Fast forward 10 yrs later I was working in a radio station and he walked in to promote a fundraiser he was running. He recognized me right away and well....we have been together ever since. I was supposed to be on my lunch break when he came in but it had been delayed also....I was about 2 months away from moving to Boston when he came into my life. Lets say I bagged those plans pretty quickly!

1. im not sure where to start... i think i always knew he was the one... something that always stuck out for me was even when I was so angry with him where i didnt even want to look at him I would still want him around, even if he is being the biggest dbag on the planet i still would rather him sleep in the bed with me than him on the couch or upstairs...

2. fate... i would like to believe in it... but i cant say I do...

I feel like my FH makes me strive to be a better person - he has such a big heart - I can't wait to be his wife

YES! We are destined to be together!
We went to high school together and were 'hi/bye' friends. I ended up going to my FHs prom (in 1997) with one of his friends that I was really close with, and some how ended up dancing with my FH. After college we kept running into each other at random places (now 2004), ,711, bars, food shopping, etc. one time we decided to go on a date and the rest is history

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Posted by mariedsgn

I feel like my FH makes me strive to be a better person - he has such a big heart - I can't wait to be his wife

YES! We are destined to be together!
We went to high school together and were 'hi/bye' friends. I ended up going to my FHs prom (in 1997) with one of his friends that I was really close with, and some how ended up dancing with my FH. After college we kept running into each other at random places (now 2004), ,711, bars, food shopping, etc. one time we decided to go on a date and the rest is history

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Wow, you guys were definitely meant to be.

1. I don't know exactly what it is but I just knew when we first started dating that he was the one... We just clicked and it's like I had known him for years... He makes me laugh and he's my best friend and I can just picture us in the future, I don't know... I guess it's cheesy to say 'I just knew', but I did

2. Whether it was fate or not, I do feel that we were meant for each other and that we were brought together... FH was in Sunday school with me forever when we were kids but we were never friends or anything... Years later I forcibly went to this function that I didnt want to go to and he was sitting next to me... and the rest is history

... oh yea and we found out that we lived a block away from each other our whole lives and didn't know it

great question.

I know FH is my one because he doesn't put up woth nonsense. My ex FH and I had a very up and down tumutuous relationship. Everything was to the extreme - we loved to the extreme and fought to the extreme. When we would make up it was very overdramatic. Whenever I start acting dramatic FH shuts it down. He doesnt feed into my nonsense which has really helped me to growand mature emotionally...

I don't believe in fate per se but I think we were def in the right place at the right time to meet each other

Yes I do believe it fate. My FH and I have known eachother for 15 years and were right in front of eachother for so long. It took seeing him again at a BBQ that turned into looking up eachother's profiles on match to hanging out and the story goes on.
Same with my friends. My sister got engaged and my best friend ended up meeting her husband the same night and he happaned to be my brother in laws friend. She would have never hooked up with him if my sister hadnt gotten engaged that night.