QOTD: Boring in bed??

Original post by AndRecKy

May 02, 2008 01:40 PM

ok--well---my question is..

HOW DO YOU LADIES KEEP things exciting and fun?

im asking this bc things have been very routine and after 3 years things get very very routine...last night my fh said i was 'boring' I WAS SO PISSED

granted--i had taken 2 tylenol pm an hour before bed and i was half dead YES I WAS 'boring'

do any of you have the same issues? things just getting sooooooooooo routine?

sorry to get so personal here but i was very upset

SoVic08 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:17 PM

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tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:17 PM

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Posted by AndRecKy

OK LADIES im leaving work now but keep the ideas CUMMING

TGIF

HEAD OVER to VS or somewhere for something fun or the whole trench coat with nothing on works or when he gets home have on just a button down shirt of his and nothing else

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:18 PM

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Posted by SoVic08

tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

45th street park

SoVic08 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:19 PM

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Posted by Kerin2804

No matter what anyone says, this happens to everyone at some point in time. Do not fret. send some naughty text messages, pick up a play outfit or some toys It is all good Have fun !!

naughty texts help a lot..sometimes FH says to stop bc when he walks into his orders- it's embarressing lol

SoVic08 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:20 PM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

45th street park

true story....lol

im with him 10 yrs in oct. and i could honestly say it hasn't been boring once

Butterfly123 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:25 PM

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Throw on some sexy lingerie. OR just stay naked with some high heels (and leave them on!) Get a little tipsy if you have to. Watch porn, talk dirty. Do things you dont normally do!!!! Ive been with DH for over 7 years now and Im not gonna say sometimes things dont feel routine but we do whatever we can to keep things fresh and exciting.

Oh and let him know if he feels like things are 'boring/routine' that its not just YOU having sex. He has to participate in trying different things also!

escobooker Posted: May 02, 2008 02:29 PM

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take a few good shots of tequila or something to losen up and get the mood going then the rest will come naturally....

Wifeynella Posted: May 02, 2008 02:29 PM

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fredericks and a trip to spencer's gift for those couples games are definitely ways to keep things fresh and fun

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:31 PM

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Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

45th street park

true story....lol

im with him 10 yrs in oct. and i could honestly say it hasn't been boring once

are you talking about in astoria? where everybody used to have keg parties? i know your FH lives right by there right?

FinallyEngaged Posted: May 02, 2008 02:31 PM

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I def vote for the Car thing.... FH and I always say that it is something about the car that makes things all better I guess b/c it brings back memories

AMGBride2008 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:38 PM

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Beck, you are FAR from boring!!!

Two things.... Porn and Toys! Now, get to shopping!

jillyb97 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:42 PM

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Posted by AndRecKy

Posted by jillyb97

I give you credit for doing anything after taking Tylenol PM! I took some nyquil last night...fh would have been sh!t out of luck if he tried anything!!!

haha i was like half dead seriously like half asleep and he has me flipped over, on the side im like STOP I JUST WANT TO SLEEP

hahahah i hear ya...i probably wouldve played dead :)

emomma17 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:53 PM

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This is funny that you posted it! I am a nut so I want FH to be a nut, I went ot barnes adn nobel the other day and bought the cosmo book on Kama Sutra and left it by the bed side, he was doing his reading last night!

emomma17 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:56 PM

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Posted by boky17

Posted by Espo22

now im inspired to do something lol

we all should do 1 new thing tonight or this weekend. Do something to surprise our FH's

great idea!!!

This is a fantastic idea! I'm all about spicing it up!

SoVic08 Posted: May 02, 2008 03:51 PM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

45th street park

true story....lol

im with him 10 yrs in oct. and i could honestly say it hasn't been boring once

are you talking about in astoria? where everybody used to have keg parties? i know your FH lives right by there right?

yaaaaaaaaaaa lol and it was recent lmao!

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 03:52 PM

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Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

45th street park

true story....lol

im with him 10 yrs in oct. and i could honestly say it hasn't been boring once

are you talking about in astoria? where everybody used to have keg parties? i know your FH lives right by there right?

yaaaaaaaaaaa lol and it was recent lmao!

fh lives right by that park too and we drive by it all the time to take the highway, now i know to look out for you there

SoVic08 Posted: May 02, 2008 03:58 PM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

45th street park

true story....lol

im with him 10 yrs in oct. and i could honestly say it hasn't been boring once

are you talking about in astoria? where everybody used to have keg parties? i know your FH lives right by there right?

yaaaaaaaaaaa lol and it was recent lmao!

fh lives right by that park too and we drive by it all the time to take the highway, now i know to look out for you there

haaaa :blushing: it was spur of the moment round 12ish am. but that's off our list lol.

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 04:01 PM

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Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

Posted by Espo22

Posted by SoVic08

tell him to meet u in the park @ night but wear a skirt...45th st park hollllllllla lol

i like to always switch it up bc if not- i get bored lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

45th street park

true story....lol

im with him 10 yrs in oct. and i could honestly say it hasn't been boring once

are you talking about in astoria? where everybody used to have keg parties? i know your FH lives right by there right?

yaaaaaaaaaaa lol and it was recent lmao!

fh lives right by that park too and we drive by it all the time to take the highway, now i know to look out for you there

haaaa :blushing: it was spur of the moment round 12ish am. but that's off our list lol.

you can move to the pyramids next or a bit further down on 19th ave and take it back to the old school days

meli722 Posted: May 02, 2008 04:32 PM

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different positions that you usually dont do
different places to do it at
try some new lingerie or outfits to wear to bed
and my favorite one is a sex toy lol