QOTD: Boring in bed??

Original post by AndRecKy

May 02, 2008 01:40 PM

ok--well---my question is..

HOW DO YOU LADIES KEEP things exciting and fun?

im asking this bc things have been very routine and after 3 years things get very very routine...last night my fh said i was 'boring' I WAS SO PISSED

granted--i had taken 2 tylenol pm an hour before bed and i was half dead YES I WAS 'boring'

do any of you have the same issues? things just getting sooooooooooo routine?

sorry to get so personal here but i was very upset

agraydc Posted: May 02, 2008 02:01 PM

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spencers gifts----the peekaboo stripper pole, its a tension rod so no upside down stuff but its still a great time....

enjoy!!!!!

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:01 PM

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Posted by AndRecKy

yea we used to be wild and crazy i dont know what happened to those long lost days haha

its very easy to get too comfortable and follow a routine when it comes to this. One time fh said something to me about something so small and simple but made me overthink it hahaha. We were driving home from having dinner with friends and he was drunk and it was 1am or so and he blasts the music which i dont care bc i always listen to it earlier but he does it right in front of my building and he started hanging out the window dancing and singing, which i wouldnt care about if it wasnt my building. So first he got mad that i stopped him. Then we get out of the car and he grabs me to dance and im just like 'ok walk' lol and he said 'ahhh youre not spontaneous anymore' and it hit me so hard when he said that. I used to be that girl, i was spontaneous and did stupid things. I know fh loves being spontaneous so i was like UGH i have become the serious one so i make sure not to do that anymore. I try to be spontaneous like i used to be and cant wait until after the wedding when it will be easier to do so hahahaha, ill have money to get more things, plan things

Future Mulligan Posted: May 02, 2008 02:02 PM

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Posted by agraydc

spencers gifts----the peekaboo stripper pole, its a tension rod so no upside down stuff but its still a great time....

enjoy!!!!!

awesome!!

jteach711 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:03 PM

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Posted by RadiantBride

Posted by jteach711

Well I just texted this to fh like 20 minutes ago

'Since we have 69 days left till the wedding how about we do some 69ing tonight?
:

lol: FH must have thought 'YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSs'

He wrote back 'I would love to hunny'

I do not usually talk like that so I hope he liked it, he is not an overly sexed guy like so many are

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:04 PM

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now im inspired to do something lol

we all should do 1 new thing tonight or this weekend. Do something to surprise our FH's

AndRecKy Posted: May 02, 2008 02:07 PM

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i know i am thinking....hahaha all of your ideas are great! fh is not going to be BORED tonight

boky17 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:09 PM

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Posted by Espo22

now im inspired to do something lol

we all should do 1 new thing tonight or this weekend. Do something to surprise our FH's

great idea!!!

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:10 PM

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Posted by AndRecKy

i know i am thinking....hahaha all of your ideas are great! fh is not going to be BORED tonight

well your hw for tonight is to do EVERYTHING we all mentioned

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:11 PM

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Posted by boky17

Posted by Espo22

now im inspired to do something lol

we all should do 1 new thing tonight or this weekend. Do something to surprise our FH's

great idea!!!

i am going to have to be creative bc im too broke to buy something right now

jillyb97 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:11 PM

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I give you credit for doing anything after taking Tylenol PM! I took some nyquil last night...fh would have been sh!t out of luck if he tried anything!!!

Costabeba Posted: May 02, 2008 02:11 PM

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YEah Im going to check out spenser for that stripper pole. We need a touch of spice in our relationship too. GOtta do something!!!

RadiantBride Posted: May 02, 2008 02:11 PM

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You can also try pringles (my favorite new word learned on LIW )

LoveRocks Posted: May 02, 2008 02:12 PM

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Sometimes it takes a little effort to spice things up a bit. New hot outfits and stripper heels always work. Maybe you could try blindfolding him or using handcuffs or some new toys. I also agree with the other girls about getting down in the car. Its spontaneous and fun! Maybe on your way home from somewhere you can start with road head and finish up when you get home!

bluekat16 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:12 PM

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Fh and I have definitely been stuck in a rut lately..though last ngiht was pretty awesome...TMI sorry.

I loved reading everyone's ideas...i think i might do some voluntary hw tonight

AndRecKy Posted: May 02, 2008 02:13 PM

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Posted by jillyb97

I give you credit for doing anything after taking Tylenol PM! I took some nyquil last night...fh would have been sh!t out of luck if he tried anything!!!

haha i was like half dead seriously like half asleep and he has me flipped over, on the side im like STOP I JUST WANT TO SLEEP

RadiantBride Posted: May 02, 2008 02:14 PM

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Posted by LoveRocks

Sometimes it takes a little effort to spice things up a bit. New hot outfits and stripper heels always work. Maybe you could try blindfolding him or using handcuffs or some new toys. I also agree with the other girls about getting down in the car. Its spontaneous and fun! Maybe on your way home from somewhere you can start with road head and finish up when you get home!

OMG road head that is the best esp. when FH is driving. Just make sure he doesnt swirve too much

Kerin2804 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:14 PM

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No matter what anyone says, this happens to everyone at some point in time. Do not fret. send some naughty text messages, pick up a play outfit or some toys It is all good Have fun !!

Espo22 Posted: May 02, 2008 02:15 PM

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Posted by AndRecKy

Posted by jillyb97

I give you credit for doing anything after taking Tylenol PM! I took some nyquil last night...fh would have been sh!t out of luck if he tried anything!!!

haha i was like half dead seriously like half asleep and he has me flipped over, on the side im like STOP I JUST WANT TO SLEEP

that happens here and there dont feel bad, just make up for it tonight

AndRecKy Posted: May 02, 2008 02:16 PM

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OK LADIES im leaving work now but keep the ideas CUMMING

TGIF

LoveRocks Posted: May 02, 2008 02:16 PM

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Posted by RadiantBride

Posted by LoveRocks

Sometimes it takes a little effort to spice things up a bit. New hot outfits and stripper heels always work. Maybe you could try blindfolding him or using handcuffs or some new toys. I also agree with the other girls about getting down in the car. Its spontaneous and fun! Maybe on your way home from somewhere you can start with road head and finish up when you get home!

OMG road head that is the best esp. when FH is driving. Just make sure he doesnt swirve too much

Road head rules!!!!! If I start, its usually fairly close to home and if its late and no ones around, we just finish in the driveway