QOTD: Boring in bed??

ok--well---my question is..

HOW DO YOU LADIES KEEP things exciting and fun?


im asking this bc things have been very routine and after 3 years things get very very routine...last night my fh said i was 'boring' I WAS SO PISSED

granted--i had taken 2 tylenol pm an hour before bed and i was half dead YES I WAS 'boring'

do any of you have the same issues? things just getting sooooooooooo routine?

sorry to get so personal here but i was very upset

yea keeping it fresh is difficult sometimes but there are simple things you can do so it seems different

try different places- like not the bedroom, or wear a sexy outfit, or different positions than the usual

FH and I like to shake things up every now and again, i have a portable stripper pole under the bed, a catholic school girl skirt, fun panties that i sneak into under my comfy pjs to surprise him, stuff like that....
sorry if TMI

Wow - I think I would've cried if FH told me that! In all honesty, if I had to say if I thought I was good in bed, I would say NO!

I actually plan to talk to FH about this b/c we do need to spice things up a bit. I tend to be really shy though, and I NEVER initiate anything and I hate that about myself. And I feel like he wishes I would, you know?

awwww sweetie dont feel bad. Its not that he is say youre boring but the routine of it. How about trying something new. Does he like visuals, maybe buy a new outfit. Is there anything new he has wanted to try? maybe try a different location but best bet i say is to be spontaneous, do something unexpected

We all fall into a routine sometimes its normal. Dont let it bring you down, let this be motivation to spice things up

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Posted by agraydc

FH and I like to shake things up every now and again, i have a portable stripper pole under the bed, a catholic school girl skirt, fun panties that i sneak into under my comfy pjs to surprise him, stuff like that....
sorry if TMI

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A PORTABLE STRIPPPER POLE??????? HAHAA WOW THAT SOUNDS FUN AND EXCITING HAHA

THANK YOU

maybe you can do something unexpected - for instance, my FH loves the shower - he always tries to put the moves on me when we are showering together but i hate fooling around in the shower and he knows that so if every once in awhile i initiated some shower loving (which he wouldnt expect, because he always wants to and i dont) - well he would LOVE it.....so something as simple as that could be totally hot


ETS: not that i know from experience or anything

I do a strip tease. And jsut like a real stripper, he can't touch. Once your done with your 'dance' your FH will definetly not be bored.

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Posted by Espo22

how about surprising him with a hotel room for the night or to save money next time he parks the car attack him in the car hahahaha. The problem can sometimes be just doing it all the time in the same bed ya know. Or make the experience very different in the same bed

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HIS dream is defintely a threesome

but thats not gonna happen soooooo i like the attack in the car plan hahahaha

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Posted by AndRecKy

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Posted by Espo22

how about surprising him with a hotel room for the night or to save money next time he parks the car attack him in the car hahahaha. The problem can sometimes be just doing it all the time in the same bed ya know. Or make the experience very different in the same bed

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HIS dream is defintely a threesome

but thats not gonna happen soooooo i like the attack in the car plan hahahaha

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yeah the car sounds alot better but make sure its a quiet area

maybe you should take him for a drive and just stop somewhere

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Posted by AndRecKy

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Posted by Espo22

how about surprising him with a hotel room for the night or to save money next time he parks the car attack him in the car hahahaha. The problem can sometimes be just doing it all the time in the same bed ya know. Or make the experience very different in the same bed

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HIS dream is defintely a threesome

but thats not gonna happen soooooo i like the attack in the car plan hahahaha

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parking is a good one too - we used to always 'park' when we first met - back then we would just make out but it brings back memories -so sometimes we park in the same spot we used to go to and you know......

thanks for these idea ladies hahaha

Well I just texted this to fh like 20 minutes ago

'Since we have 69 days left till the wedding how about we do some 69ing tonight?

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Posted by jteach711

Well I just texted this to fh like 20 minutes ago

'Since we have 69 days left till the wedding how about we do some 69ing tonight?

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Posted by Future Mulligan

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Posted by AndRecKy

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Posted by Espo22

how about surprising him with a hotel room for the night or to save money next time he parks the car attack him in the car hahahaha. The problem can sometimes be just doing it all the time in the same bed ya know. Or make the experience very different in the same bed

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HIS dream is defintely a threesome

but thats not gonna happen soooooo i like the attack in the car plan hahahaha

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parking is a good one too - we used to always 'park' when we first met - back then we would just make out but it brings back memories -so sometimes we park in the same spot we used to go to and you know......

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yeah feels dirty and forbidden which guys like hahahaha also this usually happens when youre just dating someone and things like this change after you move in or get engaged or married so will remind them of those exciting times haha

yea we used to be wild and crazy i dont know what happened to those long lost days haha

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Posted by jteach711

Well I just texted this to fh like 20 minutes ago

'Since we have 69 days left till the wedding how about we do some 69ing tonight?

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lol: FH must have thought 'YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSs'