QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Original post by Katie&Chris2006

Feb 08, 2006 03:57 PM

Some girls at work and I were chatting about this. Does anyone do this? If you found something you didn't like or questioned, would you/did you confront FH?

anne1rules Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:36 PM

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Posted by MCDO15

she can look, not sure what she be looking for besides money or recpeits or something...

she wouldn't because we are working this trust thing we got....

Hey a guys point of view...fabulous!!

babybug631 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:36 PM

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I don't snoop.

smara Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:40 PM

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Nope....No reason too.

Plus he isnt computer savvy, everything he learned about the PC was from me. I even set up his email acct so I know the password - not that there would be anything i need to worry about.

103005FallBride Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:44 PM

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No...snooping is soooo not good!
Trust!

MJDoc12 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:44 PM

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i don't think i snoop--cause i have permission. lol

FH doesn't have a computer and only gets to check his mail from either his cell phone or on my house computer...so he always has me check his e-mail for him...so i have all his passwords--most of the time i just tell him 'so-and-so' e-mailed you...and then he'll find some time to go online and read it himself. but if he doesn't have the time...he'll just tell me to read it for him.

i might jokingly snatch his wallet in front of him and look at...like i'm pretending to really be searching--but nah--i wouldn't take it on the sly and examine it!

girls who do that have serious trust issues!!

Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Feb 08, 2006 05:14 PM

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Fh is lactose intolerant, I put the lactaid pills in his wallet that way he'll always have a few w/ him incase he's hungry & wants to eat pizza (his munchie of choice, before the diet) and I found a ton of jewlers cards, & a reciept for my oringal e-ring....

that's the only thing that ever came out that I wish didn't ....

but we got to shop for the perfect ring together the bright side

ssdbk Posted: Feb 14, 2006 06:23 PM

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I don't snoop on DH but I did it to my ex boyfriend all the time. WIth him I felt the need. He wasn't over his ex and I was looking to see what he was saving from her. I usually found something. With DH, I don't feel the need.

july06bride Posted: Feb 14, 2006 06:28 PM

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I am bad with surprises, so I have once or twice to see what gifts I was getting, I know silly! he knew though and laughed..now he knows, NO more reciepts in his wallet!

cindyandkevin Posted: Feb 14, 2006 06:37 PM

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I've never felt the need to snoop on FH, I completely trust him. If he's napping and his cell phone rings I'll look to see who it is, but that's bc either I'll answer it for him or decide to just let it go to VM.

I have access to all of his passwords too, but I would never go into his email except once when I wanted to get someone's addy from his contact list. As for his wallet, I'll open it to tell him he needs to clean it out or if he tells me to take something out of it, that's it.

Same goes for all of my stuff, we respect each other. It isn't snooping, it's just that we have a very 'what's yours is mine' attitude about everything.

It's so nice being in a relationship where I can trust him and he trusts me!!

klslk Posted: Feb 14, 2006 06:44 PM

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Nope. Never did. It just seems too icky. Never thought about it either.

If I ever felt the need or desire, there would be some much bigger issues going on...

MrsFudge Posted: Feb 14, 2006 06:48 PM

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never

kittythestray Posted: Feb 14, 2006 09:35 PM

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No, never.

Melissa&Steve Posted: Feb 14, 2006 09:45 PM

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never...no need to..we have all each others pw's so there is obviously nothing to hide...

D's Girl Posted: Feb 14, 2006 09:59 PM

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Nope, never have and hopefully will never feel the need to.

I have been in a relationship like that before and it was the worst feeling.

kay Posted: Feb 14, 2006 10:07 PM

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Posted by babybug631

I don't snoop.[
/QUOTE]
me too

kam0813 Posted: Feb 14, 2006 10:40 PM

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Nope I never have and never will but I get tempted sometimes...only because FH had cheated on his ex...but I know he wouldn't cheat on me...what he did in his past is in his past and doesn't really concern me..He's told me the truth about everything from day one and we trust each other completely

Goldi1021 Posted: Feb 14, 2006 10:41 PM

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Never have. Never will. Id ask first. Trust is key with me. If you dont have that you have nothing.

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Feb 14, 2006 10:44 PM

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i have no reason to snoop.

jnrrb Posted: Feb 14, 2006 10:48 PM

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I have total trust. This is the person that I am going to spend the rest of my life with and that is no way to live a life if you have to sneek around looking for thing to find because you don't trust you FI.