QOTD: Friday, Sept. 17th

Original post by FutureMRS.Benn

Sep 17, 2010 09:30 AM

Good Morning Ladies. Happy Friday!!!

My question today is a fun one -- Was it love at first sight when you met your FH? If not, when did you know you were in love and could not live without him???

sjr385 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 10:41 AM

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FutureMrsPanuch Posted: Sep 17, 2010 10:54 AM

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OH YEAH!!! lol... it was defiantly love at first sight. Fh and I met when i was 15 and he was 17. I knew right off the bat i would marry him one day. FH being the 17 year old that all boys are refused to admit it to himself and his friends that he knew we would wind up together....

It took a while for us to actually start dating, but thats just because there were a lot of differences in our families, and my mom was a little psychotic... lol... but eventually after going our separate ways for about 4 years we started dating and that was the beginning of our lives together.

Today I always say and will always believe that 'if you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it was always yours if not it was never yours to begin with' this is what happened with me and FH. I let him go live his life and he lived his... now we will be getting married in a little over 9 months!!! i cant believe it

MissingLI Posted: Sep 17, 2010 12:11 PM

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I wouldn't say love, but I knew right from the first date that he was the one. It was maybe a week in that I realized it was love. For him too. We were talking about our wedding by the 1st week.

aquag12283 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 02:38 PM

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I definitely liked him a lot when I first met him but it wasn't love at first sight. Probably about a month and a half later he took me to AC for the weekend. After that weekend I knew this was gonig to be the man that I married! About a month and a half after that he told me he loved me for the first time. It still melts my heart when I think aboutt hat day!

B853 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 02:46 PM

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This makes me teary! It wasn't right away because I was in a relationship when we met. I never got too close to him coz I knew there was a spark there. When I broke it off with my ex we got together almost immediately, and I knew from our first kiss it was for keeps!

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Sep 17, 2010 02:49 PM

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It definetly was not love at first sight. I hated him when I first met him. LOL

But once our relationship started and we were totally inseperable, I knew this was the guy I was going to spend my life with.

allornil Posted: Sep 17, 2010 02:54 PM

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omg no way! I thought he was a stalker! Hot..but still..STALKER!

took years and then one night...BAM! love.

FutureMRS.Benn Posted: Sep 17, 2010 03:55 PM

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Posted by allornil

omg no way! I thought he was a stalker! Hot..but still..STALKER!

took years and then one night...BAM! love.

Isn't it nice to have a hot stalker. At least he was not creepy!!

FutureMRS.Benn Posted: Sep 17, 2010 03:56 PM

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Posted by bethie853

This makes me teary! It wasn't right away because I was in a relationship when we met. I never got too close to him coz I knew there was a spark there. When I broke it off with my ex we got together almost immediately, and I knew from our first kiss it was for keeps!

Beth teary - awwwwwww!!!!!

allornil Posted: Sep 17, 2010 04:08 PM

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Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by allornil

omg no way! I thought he was a stalker! Hot..but still..STALKER!

took years and then one night...BAM! love.

Isn't it nice to have a hot stalker. At least he was not creepy!!

um...yeah he was!

FutureMRS.Benn Posted: Sep 17, 2010 04:09 PM

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Posted by allornil

Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by allornil

omg no way! I thought he was a stalker! Hot..but still..STALKER!

took years and then one night...BAM! love.

Isn't it nice to have a hot stalker. At least he was not creepy!!

um...yeah he was!

Give me the deets girlie!!

FutureMRS.Benn Posted: Sep 17, 2010 04:09 PM

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Posted by allornil

Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by allornil

omg no way! I thought he was a stalker! Hot..but still..STALKER!

took years and then one night...BAM! love.

Isn't it nice to have a hot stalker. At least he was not creepy!!

um...yeah he was!

Give us the deets girlie!!

spdy540 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 04:19 PM

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it was not even close to love at first sight I met him the day i was suppose to marry another guy but the wedding had just been called off so I already wasnt happy. then he told me he hated me because i work for a personal injury firm and he had worked in BI for GEICO, then we became friends and he liked me but instead of asking if the feeling was mutual he decided to date another girl before he decided I was worth fighting for. He loved me first one night we got into an argument and instead of being mad at him i realized i was annoyed in the first place and it was because I loved him

meghan13 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 04:20 PM

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I dont know if it was love at first sight but I think I knew it was serious right away. I was in an on-off again type thing and I completely ended things with him as soon as I met my FH.

MrsKon1111 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 05:04 PM

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Definatly wasnt love at first sight cause i frist met him in high school and we werent really friends

but flash foward 5 years later i remet him at a bar we talked all night and i couldnt stop thinking about him, so i would yes then i knew it was something special

allornil Posted: Sep 17, 2010 05:26 PM

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Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by allornil

Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by allornil

omg no way! I thought he was a stalker! Hot..but still..STALKER!

took years and then one night...BAM! love.

Isn't it nice to have a hot stalker. At least he was not creepy!!

um...yeah he was!

Give us the deets girlie!!

ok so starts working here as a PT thing during school. he's shy and cute and I had a bf and im like ok hi, bye.

time goes by. he learns I'm a met fab, buys me some met stuff. ok..nice thanks

we start talking a lot outside after work in the parking lot. i can tell he likes me. i'm so done w my then bf - aka peanut boy and im complaining about him a lot.

we arrange to all hang out - me, his cousins, peanut biy at brother jimmys one night. they're late, im bored bc peanut boy is annoying. I drink myself stupid...get on a table..sing. they show up. anyway... lol

the famous peanut incident happens and i dump pb.

more time goes by...v day shows up. he sends me so much stuff they still talk about it here like 9 years later. 4 shopping bags full of stuff, candy, dvds..., flowers so big they'd cost 300 a cp at a wedding in the hugest purple vase ever, like 20 ballons..huge mylar ones and a teddy bear as big as me.

Im like um......wow. we're not even dating.

anyway...he calls me every day...a lot. we argue once and he drives from queens to my house in the snow. i refuse to let him bc im mad and send him home. he cries.

anyway things evened out, we started hanging out, talked stuff out but before that there were so many more incidents i can go on and on and on about lol

LaBellaVita622 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 06:07 PM

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I would say within the first few weeks of being together

jesstangney Posted: Sep 17, 2010 07:54 PM

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OMG< I don't remember that far back!!!! 13 years is a long time when you were only 12! Um, the second time around, no it wasn't LOVE at first sight, it was certainly LUST, later that night it was serious LIKE... Love didn't come for about 4 more months... I think it was in January 2008 that I knew he was it!