QOTD: LIW pet peeves

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Posted by DebMaher

Why, Lady P (in heavy southern drawl), I do declare, I believe I got me an admirer (heavy heavy slur on the erer)

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Posted by stacy&joe

Me, too - I'm sorry for contributing to any pet peeves - newbie mistakes I have never done this chat thing before anywhere.

Just a question - I don't want to be a pain to anyone - but could you tell what people really think when you ask for vendor suggestions? I asked for hair/make-up vendor suggestions a few times, and practically nobody responded. Was I offensive? I thought that was one of the purposes of the board - to help each other when we're stuck. Now, I think maybe I was being a pain in the butt. Was I?

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Posted by DIJBH

I am a newbie but it doesn't bother me - but maybe because I do the same thing!

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Posted by stacy&joe

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Posted by DIJBH

I am a newbie but it doesn't bother me - but maybe because I do the same thing!

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Ok, good! Thanks! If you need help finding a vendor (or anyone else for that matter) - I'll tell you what I know anytime - it's not much - but that's all I have to offer help with!

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Posted by cranesgirl25

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

When people post pics of themselves for no apparent reason other than to solicit comments about how pretty and skinny they are. I guess they are just insecure, but I don't get it.

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okay, after reading the 'What do we all do for a living' post, I change my mind. There is nothing wrong with posting pics of yourself for compliments. There is definitely something wrong with asking what everyone does for a living so you can brag that you spend your husbands money for a living!! (nothing to brag about - I would hide that from you all!) I'm sorry, ladies, I am not TRYING to start drama, but that is unbelievable.

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well, it's official, you are definitely obsessed with me, I take it as a compliment.
But FYI, I busted my butt 16 hrs a week for 12 yrs. and it was very sweet of him to take me out of that. I was innocently wondering what all the girls did for a living, and it got blown out of proportion. I think 95% of the girls here are very sweet and real, you really has some sort of anger i cannot for the life of me figure out, im really sorry. you need to let it go.

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Posted by stacy&joe

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Posted by DIJBH

I am a newbie but it doesn't bother me - but maybe because I do the same thing!

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Ok, good! Thanks! If you need help finding a vendor (or anyone else for that matter) - I'll tell you what I know anytime - it's not much - but that's all I have to offer help with!

Edited to say - I think you're a very nice newbie! I meant to type it, but I hit send too fast. Oh, well. I still think it!

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Posted by DIJBH

Thanks - same for you. You can FM me (not that I know that much) but at least we'll know we are not making newbie errors and ticking off the whole board

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Posted by stacy&joe

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Posted by DIJBH

Thanks - same for you. You can FM me (not that I know that much) but at least we'll know we are not making newbie errors and ticking off the whole board

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That was cute. Thanks!! I'll take you up on the offer. We'll make that our mission - not to tick off the entire board. I like that - it's a pretty good goal.

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Posted by stacy&joe

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Posted by DIJBH

Thanks - same for you. You can FM me (not that I know that much) but at least we'll know we are not making newbie errors and ticking off the whole board

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That was cute. Thanks!! I'll take you up on the offer. We'll make that our mission - not to tick off the entire board. I like that - it's a pretty good goal.

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Posted by stacy&joe

Me, too - I'm sorry for contributing to any pet peeves - newbie mistakes I have never done this chat thing before anywhere.

Just a question - I don't want to be a pain to anyone - but could you tell what people really think when you ask for vendor suggestions? I asked for hair/make-up vendor suggestions a few times, and practically nobody responded. Was I offensive? I thought that was one of the purposes of the board - to help each other when we're stuck. Now, I think maybe I was being a pain in the butt. Was I?

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

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Posted by stacy&joe

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Posted by DIJBH

Thanks - same for you. You can FM me (not that I know that much) but at least we'll know we are not making newbie errors and ticking off the whole board

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That was cute. Thanks!! I'll take you up on the offer. We'll make that our mission - not to tick off the entire board. I like that - it's a pretty good goal.

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You are both way to sweet to tick off this board! You have to be mean and fake to get the drama flowing.

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

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Posted by cranesgirl25

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

When people post pics of themselves for no apparent reason other than to solicit comments about how pretty and skinny they are. I guess they are just insecure, but I don't get it.

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okay, after reading the 'What do we all do for a living' post, I change my mind. There is nothing wrong with posting pics of yourself for compliments. There is definitely something wrong with asking what everyone does for a living so you can brag that you spend your husbands money for a living!! (nothing to brag about - I would hide that from you all!) I'm sorry, ladies, I am not TRYING to start drama, but that is unbelievable.

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well, it's official, you are definitely obsessed with me, I take it as a compliment.
But FYI, I busted my butt 16 hrs a week for 12 yrs. and it was very sweet of him to take me out of that. I was innocently wondering what all the girls did for a living, and it got blown out of proportion. I think 95% of the girls here are very sweet and real, you really has some sort of anger i cannot for the life of me figure out, im really sorry. you need to let it go.

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oh cranesgirl, i am not obsessed with you! But if that flatters you ...so be it!

Let's talk.

I do not have anger towards you, I don't even know you. If however, you knew me you would know I never let anyone get away with any kind of bull-****.

I am perceptive, and I call people out - when I don't like what they say or how they are behaving. I am not a bi**ch about it, I am just candid about how I feel towards people. I have many friends and family who really like this quality in me-I am always myself and never pretend to be anything but. I make friends with very real, honest, down to earth people. I tend to call out people I think are fake and showy.

I have not been mean to you - just honest. You insulted me in my dress thread, and then when I asked you in an FM why that was neccesary you responded by calling me a FATTY. That is mean.

This all started when I told you to 'speak for your own man' in the batchelor-thread where you commented on how stupid men are when they are with their friends. You took it personally, got defensive, then changed your story to say said your man was not that type. Why start the thread then?

I honestly think you like stirring things up and talking obsessively about your self - and that is just fine. IMO you are insecure. And you can think whatever you want to about me - I know who I am. I apologize if I have hurt your feelings at any point and I hope you can let this go.

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Posted by Aga

I dont think you were offensive, what I think happens is that for those of us that have been on here a while we have seen these kinds of threads over and over again, so sometimes I dont even click on them... I am sorry, I will be better and try to help more

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Posted by Bunnymonkey


You are both way to sweet to tick off this board! You have to be mean and fake to get the drama flowing.

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Posted by DebMaher



Wow. Ladies, we are adult, intelligent, articulate women who should be able to interact with each other with a whole lot more respect and self-discipline than this. If this is the best that you can do, keep the thought to yourself. We, the friendly, supportive people who are working together to better our wedding planning and just have fun, would prefer you took it elsewhere.

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Let's talk.

I do not have anger towards you, I don't even know you. If however, you knew me you would know I never let anyone get away with any kind of bull-****.

I am perceptive, and I call people out - when I don't like what they say or how they are behaving. I am not a bi**ch about it, I am just candid about how I feel towards people. I have many friends and family who really like this quality in me-I am always myself and never pretend to be anything but. I make friends with very real, honest, down to earth people. I tend to call out people I think are fake and showy.

I have not been mean to you - just honest. You insulted me in my dress thread, and then when I asked you in an FM why that was neccesary you responded by calling me a FATTY. That is mean.

This all started when I told you to 'speak for your own man' in the batchelor-thread where you commented on how stupid men are when they are with their friends. You took it personally, got defensive, then changed your story to say said your man was not that type. Why start the thread then?

I honestly think you like stirring things up and talking obsessively about your self - and that is just fine. IMO you are insecure. And you can think whatever you want to about me - I know who I am. I apologize if I have hurt your feelings at any point and I hope you can let this go.

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