Hi all! A big thank you again to Jill for making me BOTW!
Soo I wanted to start off with a more romantic question, and then as the week goes on maybe we'll make them a bit riskier sound good?
Soooo today's question is: do you remember the first time you realized FH was the man you wanted to marry? what was that moment like?
Mine was after his mom's birthday dinner last September (2008). I went out with his family and then after we went out with his friends and he was so sweet to me and treated me so nicely in front of his friends and I remember calling my best friend after and (slightly drunkenly) telling her i was in love with him and that i wanted to marry him. Hehe it was another month or so before we actually exchanged ILYs but that was the night I knew.
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Congrats on BOTW!
Somehow, we both knew as soon as we started dating. In fact, FH asked me within 2 months of us dating how long he'd have to wait to propose to me. I told him at least 3 years. Lo and behold 4 years later, he proposed!
BriansWifey
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honestly, nope i dont realize this moment. does that make me a bad fiance???
AngnShaun
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it was very early on.... i dont remember a specific moment that i felt that way... but i feel like I always felt that way
JillandJoe
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I don't really know exactly. I think it was one day when we were laying in his bed watching tv and he started talking about our future home and kids and I was like wow, this is it. I think by 7 months into our relationship I knew for sure I loved him, he loved me, and this was it.
JennandAnthony
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Congrats on BOTW!!
I knew right away that I wanted to marry him, and apparently he knew too, 2 months after dating we were at his sisters house and he told me that a yr from that date we were going to be planning a wedding or getting ready to be engaged......fast forward 4 months....and we were engaged!!!
StaceyWill
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We knew pretty much right away. We started dating in August '08 and he proposed January '09.
soontobecruz
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I knew very early on. I can't remember the first time I was like OMG! but I know very early on there was something about him that kept me wanting more and to not go a day without seeing him. FH and I got very serious very quickly and it was perfect!
NanandEric08
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Congrats on BOTW! I honestly didn't ever have a moment when I realized he was the person I wanted to marry. I think it was when we moved in together and everything just started to mesh that I realized I wanted to be with him forever.
FutureMrsSoltan
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fh said he knew right away, he actually wrote me a card saying 3 yrs from now we will start our life together
well 3 yrs after the card we were engaged.
i didnt know right away, probably like 3 months into it, considering thats when the I love yous started
rdubs
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I think I knew right away that I could very well marry him, and told him the night we met that I liked him and hoped there wasn't any ' deal breakers' (in a cute, flirty way). Thank goodness there weren't!
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Great first question!
There was no exact point, but within the past few months, I've realized that there's no one better than him. I always known that deep down, but it was like an actual realization. He definitely has his faults and most of you know them! but he's definitely a good person and more importantly, the right person for me
regy_k
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the moment I realized we were hopelessly in love with each other, which was about 3 weeks into dating
we were talking wedding and guest lists about a month into dating lol
AdriandSteve
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Yes.. it was our 1st Valentines day together and about 1 month into our relationship lol. He made me a boquet of a dozen oragami roses. I realized how much effort and time he put into it. I thought to myself, 'omg.. look at how much work he did! They look great! ooooh craaap. lol I think i'm falling in love with him lol'. (i wasn't prepared for it lol)
Diana12
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I really don't remember the exact day, but it was def. within the first year of dating that we knew we would be married someday!
MrsC2010
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i dont remember exactly when i realized it but i was pretty early in our relationship. probably only a few months in. we were still in college though so i knew it would be for awhile...but i was right bc now 7 years later we are getting married!
Lsorrent
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I don't think I had that 'moment.' It was pretty much a gradual thing.
xela
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Honustly I don't remember the exact date but I do know we were only dating a couple weeks. Over a few drinks we were talking about what we wanted out of life and I pretty much told him I wasnt getting any younger and after a slew of dead-end relationships I needed a man I was gonna spend the rest of my life with. I explained to him I wanted a man that was going to be a provider for me and possibly a family one day. His response-'I don't know how I am gonna do it, but I'll find a way!' And at that moment I knew he was the one.
MikesBride2B
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My first visit out to Ohio when I met FSD for the first time...the whole weekend we felt like a little family, and when I came home I told my mom I was going to marry him.
My mom was not happy, she kept telling me to chill out because I 'barely' knew him.
Nina1010
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Can't say I knew right away...I just knew it was easy, a break from drama and the dating games. We have fun, laugh and really got along. That and the butterlies.....made sense to me.
