Thank you all so much for picking me as your new BOTW! You all have been an excellent resource and 'family' of sorts for me in the past four months since I joined LIW.
I hope you all have found my posts helpful as well and I hope that my questions will be as interesting as those we've had in the past!
Question of the Day:
What is one aspect of your wedding planning that has been really important to you even though you never thought (in a million years even!) that you would care about and it caught you by surprise?
My Answer:
I'd have to say that for me, I never 'in a million years' thought I would care so much about flowers. Generally, I'm not a flower lover. In fact, I don't like flowers at all - every time FH bought them for me, I'd say something like, 'don't bother, I'm allergic to most of them anyway!' But for me, when I go to a wedding, the CPs 'make' or 'break' the night for me. I know this sounds a bit ridiculous, but in my experience, I've found that the CPs/BoKs that you pick for your wedding are really your only chance at individuality - YOU get to pick the flowers that go in those CPs and BoKs, and you get to design them the way that you want them to look on your wedding day.
What about the rest of you?
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For me.. i mean it might sound a little dumb but my color scheme has wound up being really important. before we started really planning the wedding i was like OK im going to use these colors... now i keep second guessing myself and cant decide on our colors.. which is really putting a damper on a lot of our planning....
I knew everything else was going to be really important... the flowers the photo/video, the location but the colors... i always thought i knew what i wanted but i dont.... im still on the fence about it... lol
something so simple you would never think would mean so much... .LOL
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Honestly, I would say the whole process of planning. I am a super easy going girl and really didn't care for the 'whole wedding' in the beginning. We eventually decided to throw together a bigger party than what we initially wanted (he wanted to elope). I remember when we went hall shopping, we decided to go with the cheapest place despite whatever it looked like. That immediately went right out of the window after seeing how gorgeous our first visit was (chcc). As we began planning, everything became so important to me, down to stupid favors.
I know this may be a cop out answer, but never in a million years did I think I would become so obsessed with wanting to have everything perfect for our wedding.
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Honestly, I would say the whole process. I never thought I would get to the point in my life where I would have found someone who wanted to marry me or even have a nice wedding and suddenly I care about even the tiniest details
and Lisa, congrats on making BOTW
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I never really thought I get so much into detail with everything but since planning I need everything to be right. I need the perfect flowers, the perfect BM dresses. I need everything to be right. I thought I'd be much more laid back with everything.
And congrats to being the new BOTW.
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I always thought I'd have the attitude like 'Oh, who cares who shows up, I'll have fun regardless!'
But not I'm OBSESSED with my guest list and who's going to come and who may not make it. Will I meet my guest minimum, will it be too much??
I seriously have had paranoid dillusional thoughts like 'Maybe all my friends secretly hate me and nobody will show up.'
AHAHAhAH
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Ugg I've gone back and forth b/c there are so many things i didnt think i would get wrapped up in but now i have - one is def the registry and the other was the limos lol.
I know - 2 totally random things. But i was dead set on a particular limo and I am a bit obsessed w/ the registry even after having an emotional breakdown from it lol
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I guess it would be the thing that has driven the craziest thus far and that would be invitations.
I have order so many samples of invitations and I never thought I would be so picky over a piece of paper that is just going to be thrown out by everyone! My whole thing is finding something that suited out wedding them and wasn't going to break the bank and I very happy to say we've found something that we've both agreed upon and it well under out budget set of invites!
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Flowers. I've always like flowers but now I'm finding I love them!
I'm also a little crazy about the colors but I knew I would be.
allornil
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um pumpkins? lol. I have this insane need to incorporate my love of Halloween and the Fall into the decor.
FutureMrsDe
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Flowers i thought were going to be something really easy and i have found it to be the hardest thing to pick. I guess i always thought i was just going to do roses but there is soooo many more choices i am so confused.
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Moonmist09
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i'm not sure. there isn't any one thing that i am obsessed about. yet anyway. i've been super easy going about the whole wedding planning process so far
monkeemunk
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I would say probably my cake, I went from who cares to I want a mountain! Lol I love sweets
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The Cassie
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everything. I'm going to be such a nut next year i swear lol
VCanizalez
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What is one aspect of your wedding planning that has been really important to you even though you never thought (in a million years even!) that you would care about and it caught you by surprise?
No Plans yet for wedding... So dunno answer =(
ElovesJ117
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Question of the Day:
What is one aspect of your wedding planning that has been really important to you even though you never thought (in a million years even!) that you would care about and it caught you by surprise?
My FH has actually surprised me. I knew he was opinionated and that it one of the reasons why I love him. He knows what he likes and dislikes. However, I really didn't know how much of a groomzilla he was going to be. We are having the hardest time finding a RH because he will like one or I will like one and we can't agree. I love the Fox Hollow and really would love to get married there. I bring him he goes I don't know, he says ok maybe I need to look again at it and we go again. We leave and I am like sooo what do you think. He goes it's beautiful I just don't know if I like it for our wedding. lol Seriously! My mom was like this is why men should not be involved. hahah He is driving me crazy! ok...I think this turned into a mini-vent hahah sorry
MissingLI
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Making sure that the wedding is a total reflection of the both of us. We have made sure to keep this is sight on every aspect of our planning. FH is involved in everything, every decision, from the color of the tie he is wearing to the verbage and font of our invitations. He has his opions on things and we tie both of what we want into everything.
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I can honestly say the things I expected to care about, I do, and the things I expected to not give a crap about, I don't.
I think I've been pretty easy going so far, but I also think I'm not far enough into the details to be fair. As me again in 6 months, lol.