FH and I are going to officially book our florist this morning and see a centerpiece sample. We had to get up early, stop snuggling, and now FH is all upset because he can't have scrambled eggs because we have to leave in 40 minutes (he even did a little stompy dance to protest).
So this inspired today's question:
What is FH's least favorite thing about the wedding planning? And what does he do when he's upset?
crazeee18
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fh hates and wants nothing to do with the little minor details of the wedding....he doesnt really do much but be firm on his answer and then change the subject
MrsInglima
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FH doesn't like that it takes up so much of his personal time and that it's really expensive.
When he's upset, he does the stompy dance. Or he gets pouty and we have to have a long discussion to talk about it before he feels better.
PS. I asked him this question and he just gave me this whole long rant. It was cute.
Soon2BMrsC09
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FH seemed very distant and I went with my mother and put a $50 deposit down at a florist just to hold our date because the price was amazing - he got so upset that we are supposed to be doing this together, and he was like 'thats fine - i am doing the favors on my own!' in a huff but of course but it was cute - I didnt expect him to be that interested in the planning because this will be his 2nd marriage - but i was happily surprised that he got somewhat bent out of shape with me not waiting for him so needless to say he has gone to every other vendor appointment with me since
DonnaPWhite1124
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We have nothing really planned, but if I bring something up, he ACTS as though its nothing but i know he's giddy about it-because he'll bring it up later on.
CASE IN POINT: yesterday I told him I was going to look at a RH-no response from him, guess that meant he didnt care.
2 Hrs later on the phone with his boy: Yeah tomorrow me and Donna are gonna look at a catering hall...
mmmhmmm...whatever champ.
Ann 52409
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His least favorite thing is that I cant stick with the budget and I want to upgrade every single vendor I have.
WinterGrl09
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OMG his least favorite thing about wedding planning is me changing my mind all the time and not telling him HEHE. I'm pretty much planning this and asking his opinions but then i'll change my mind or do something that I don't tell him about. He gets really mad.
beram63
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least favorite: worrying about money--we bicker and then catch ourselves.
chicky724
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Hmmm I don't know, he's been pretty good about everything so far.
I think the only time he gets mad is when he wants to buy something totally unnecessary and I remind him that we're supposed to be saving. haha
tinadansr
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FH hates hearing how much it costs! And he deals with that by saying we should elope
lilpiggy742
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FH just gets annoyed when i bring up things...im always like 'hey hunny-how about this?' 'Hey hunny, does this sound like a good idea' most of the time he just rolls his eyes and says whatever haha OOOh and he also says that its a year away and why do we have to rush things. How about i want to book the vendors that i really like and want! The money thing hasn't been an issue tho b/c we never actually set a budget-how bad is that!
DomesticDeeva
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His least favorite thing is probably paying for it.
Just kidding...he didn't want anything to do with the flowers either..other than that, he's very into the details.
When he's upset he pouts and acts like a 5 year old..it's very entertaining.
purplerain
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My FH keeps on going on about spending so much money! He goes off out to the garage to work when we have a disagreement!
vicky1125
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he hates having to see all the vendors. lucky for him, i'm not picky & i knew who i wanted to use from the beginning.
GT143EA
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His least favorite thing is signing those checks!!!
melcc83
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ok FH has actually been really good. Everything that gets planned we do together. He even went with me to every appointment even the florsit. So in that aspect i cant really complain. The thing that he doesnt like and that we get into arguements about is the money!!! I try very hard to find bargains and resonable prices, but of course i stilll want an amazing wedding...what girl wouldnt. But he hates having to pay so much money and he didnt really understand why we had to spend so much money. I mean he didnt think we neeeded a florist loll men!!! Hes coming around though.. it made it hard i think b/c we arent gettin any help from the parents we are doing everything ourselves. Little by little hes understanding lolll
melcc83
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im totally with youuuu on that one its like pulling teeth!!!!!!!!!!
alli3131
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FH least part of wedding planning is the planning. He doesn't get mad or upset (i've only seen him mad/upset a few times). So I am marrying a robot...lol.
MrsInglima
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Posted by alli3131
FH least part of wedding planning is the planning. He doesn't get mad or upset (i've only seen him mad/upset a few times). So I am marrying a robot...lol.
They call me the robot, but it's not because of not getting upset. It's because I just get stuff done so fast.
flairforfashion
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FH has been great throughout this planning process. I can't say that he hates any of it.
