I just want to thank Jenny (MrsFazz2B) for nominating me for BOTW! I also want to commend her for being an amazing BOTW. She gave us thoughtful questions and great ideas to chat about!
I've heard that there's no such thing as the perfect relationship - every couple goes through tough times. That being said, how do you and FH resolve your disagreements/issues? Do you talk things out? Do you argue for a while and eventually forget about it? Do you both know how to apologize and admit when you're wrong? All in all, how do you and FH 'smooth things over'?
CNC4eva3402
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He use to like to let it cool off because he felt that if you argue you end up saying things that you didnt mean it could be hurtful and you couldn't take it back. However, I needed to rant and rave lolz..so his whole theory would just aggrivate me even more!!! Over the years we kind of changed though. Now I hate arguing and I just get really quiet and FH usually has to beg me into talking and saying whats on my mind. We've been together almost 6yrs and I dont think we've only had maybe 2 or 3 arguments...
flairforfashion
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That being said, how do you and FH resolve your disagreements/issues? Ha, we yell and argue then storm out. Then we let eachother cool off.
Do you talk things out? After cooling off, we do talk things out.
Do you argue for a while and eventually forget about it? No, we never just forget about it. It is important to talk about everything.
Do you both know how to apologize and admit when you're wrong? Yes, we do apologize at the end.
All in all, how do you and FH 'smooth things over'? We smooth things over in the end by just talking and getting coffee and just hanging out one on one.
kabo0831
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we talk our our problems and also i think im the one that allows says sorry even know it wasnt my fault
Nelle5757
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Actually we just had a huge argument and we are sitting in different rooms watching tv. I guess we are cooling off. It happened when we are on the streets walking around in Hoboken and then I decided to walk away from him towards home. This is not fun
MRSin2009
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well of course usually whatever fight about is because FH did something wrong
Usually we try to talk, which means I talk he doesnt pay attention which then leads to me agrueing and him still not paying attention then I cry and he feels bad and appologies.
WORKS EVERYTIME!!!
Chanwich
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He tries to talk, I usually stew over it and refuse to talk about it which makes him even angrier. Eventually we both cool off and apologize then pretend it never happened. Not the best, but it works for us!
kimiequa
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my fh is a lover, not a fighter! haha if we get in a fight, its usually because i got upset or mad about something!
i'll tell him something that's bothering me and we talk it out.
Im a Pepper
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Posted by Nelle5757
Actually we just had a huge argument and we are sitting in different rooms watching tv. I guess we are cooling off. It happened when we are on the streets walking around in Hoboken and then I decided to walk away from him towards home. This is not fun
AWWWW you guys will resolve everything. i think gathering your thoughts separately for a while is a really mature, smart way of handling it!!! GL, we're here if you need to vent.
TnJ041809
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It really depends on the argument. Usually we stay quiet for a few hrs and get over being angry and give us both time to think clearly and then we'll talk it out for just a little bit we won't make it a big drawn out thing or dwell on it bc then we will just get aggrevated again.
Congrats on becoming BOTW!
MrsDtoBe09
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In all honesty, I start all the fights. I'm hot headed and fh is so calm. I always appologize though - I almost always quickly realize I was being a jerk.
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We've def. had a bump in the road and it all bottom lined to communication. Now we talk about everything no holds back. Let it out but talk it out - we dont argue. We're so in love and this is my best friend - best friends share everything. We work it out and work it out - at the end of the day life is too precious to be arguing or having a stubborn head. We're both Irish and we've found a way!!!
Nelle5757
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Posted by Nelle5757
Actually we just had a huge argument and we are sitting in different rooms watching tv. I guess we are cooling off. It happened when we are on the streets walking around in Hoboken and then I decided to walk away from him towards home. This is not fun
AWWWW you guys will resolve everything. i think gathering your thoughts separately for a while is a really mature, smart way of handling it!!! GL, we're here if you need to vent.
Thank you. Things are better now. It was a silly fight. I am also PMSing and I am so sensitive today.
Im a Pepper
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Posted by Nelle5757
Posted by Future Pepper
Posted by Nelle5757
Actually we just had a huge argument and we are sitting in different rooms watching tv. I guess we are cooling off. It happened when we are on the streets walking around in Hoboken and then I decided to walk away from him towards home. This is not fun
AWWWW you guys will resolve everything. i think gathering your thoughts separately for a while is a really mature, smart way of handling it!!! GL, we're here if you need to vent.
Thank you. Things are better now. It was a silly fight. I am also PMSing and I am so sensitive today.
hey, we're women... it happens. glad to hear you smoothed everything over
lookitscassie
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we yell at each other and then we start cracking up laughing and normally thats it. we forget what we're fighting about within 10 mins usually
GinaBambina08
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We usually bicker a little and then forget about it....
