~*~*~*~*~ QOTD Sunday 4/11/10 ~*~*~*~*~

~*~*~*~*~ QOTD Sunday 4/11/10 ~*~*~*~*~

“The afternoon knows what the morning never suspected” - Swedish Proverb

…And so it is I ask a question perfect for a Sunday afternoon. The time to rest, relax, and ponder…

Question:
We all plan for the wedding of our dreams with the man of our dreams but what about “The” dream? We’re all living in reality but what if we had our dreams (what ever that may represent to you) handed to us on a silver platter; would you be willing to sacrifice FH in pursuit of the dream? How much of yourself would you sacrifice for FH? What if you had to choose between the two? What are your thoughts on consequence and compromise; at what cost?

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Personally i believe FH is part of my 'dream' I feel like he is there pushing me to fulfill every part of my life that i ever want. (he is willing to help me go back to school to get my masters after the wedding) we have both comprimised and will comprimise a lot when it comes to both our religions... Growing up we both believed we would marry someone of the same faith.. me jewish him catholic.. but you cant help who you fall in love with and we fell in love with eachother... We support each others dreams and together we feel we will reach those dreams

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That's a deep question. i'd have to think about it. but for starters my dream would be to live a long and happy life and have a family with my FH.

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My children are dreams that already came true. They are the two perfect little people and having them at such a young age I gave up alot of me and who I was at the time. I left being a teen behind and became a mom. I don't regret any bit of it though at all!!

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fh is the biggest dream to me. we both gave up a lot for eachother already, so i cant imagine what more is in store for us! for the better! if i had to choose between living in a box with my fh or a big house without him id pick the box. we already tried giving eachother up for other dreams we thought we wanted and we ended up being more miserable. i dream big, but my dreams are realistic and hes in everyone of them.were both the type of people who dream big, but we try to do as much of those dreams as we could together!

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i love my life exactly the way it is....including fh, job....my dream will be complete when i have kids

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Steve is a dream come true to me. I couldn't ask for a better best friend and love. We both have given up a lot to be together. I think when we met my dreams changed. I changed my career and went back to school for something else. Our dream is to have a big family. We will sacrifice things for that. With his career (chef) I chose to no longer be a business manager because of our hours. We make the best of everything and have our eyes on 'our dream'.

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My dream is to be with my FH and build a happy life together. It's just beginning...

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