QOTD - Sunday
Re: QOTD - Sunday
no i dont... i dont think im that close to them....but maybe i will after we get married
Re: QOTD - Sunday
I am close with them but, dont call them mom and dad....just by their first names
Re: QOTD - Sunday
NO! His parents have said some hurtful things to me in the past that I just cant see calling them mom and dad. The hurtful things they said they think were HELPFUL not hurtful! UGH
Re: QOTD - Sunday
No I dont. They live 5 hours away so I really only see them 2 or 3 times a year at the most. I don't call them anything really, lol. When I've sent them cards I write their first names.
Re: QOTD - Sunday
I don't refer to them as mom and dad either, all though I think they would really want me to, I just don't feel comfortable. Maybe one day.
Re: QOTD - Sunday
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maybe after we get married but now its just a joke that we call FFIL and FMIL mom and dad
Re: QOTD - Sunday
well FH doesn't even call his stepdad 'dad' so it wouldn't be right for me to. His mom I just call by her first name and I probably won't call her 'mom' either.
Re: QOTD - Sunday
I call his parents Mom and Dad now, because of his culture,Nigerian, its rude to call them by their first name. It felt weird in the beginning cause weren't even engaged yet, but know it feels right.
Re: QOTD - Sunday
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Yeah I do most of the time, it is the first time I feel funny saying that.
Re: QOTD - Sunday
I dont now....but I probably will after we get married.
Re: QOTD - Sunday
No, I still call his dad Mr. The relationship is kind of weird. His dad is remarried and I call his wife by her first name but he never said I should call him by his first name so I don't. I've never met his mom and I'm not sure if I will. Makes things easier... don't have to worry about having a crazy mother in law!
Re: QOTD - Sunday
I call them by their first names...don't know if I will call them Mom and Dad after we're married.
Re: QOTD - Sunday
Nope call FMIL by her first name since she wouldnt let me call her Mrs.... anymore. After we are married, i cant see calling someone else mom
Re: QOTD - Sunday
Nope! I call her by her first name. However, FH calls my mother 'Ma'
Re: QOTD - Sunday
Yea I fell awkward caling them mom and dad, so i am usually very uncomfortable calling them anything!
Re: QOTD - Sunday
no way i have my own mom and dad to call mom and dad, i never really liked that anyway
Re: QOTD - Sunday
nope and i dont think i will.... to me its too odd calling them mom and dad when your parents are your mom and dad!!!! to me its wierd