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QOTD - Sunday

ilonka020 Posted:

QOTD - Sunday

Do you call your FH's parents mom and dad..? Wil you start when you get married.?

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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no i dont... i dont think im that close to them....but maybe i will after we get married

dazies1011 Posted:

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I am close with them but, dont call them mom and dad....just by their first names

MRSin2009 Posted:

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NO! His parents have said some hurtful things to me in the past that I just cant see calling them mom and dad. The hurtful things they said they think were HELPFUL not hurtful! UGH

FutureMrsLehmann Posted:

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No I dont. They live 5 hours away so I really only see them 2 or 3 times a year at the most. I don't call them anything really, lol. When I've sent them cards I write their first names.

ilonka020 Posted:

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I don't refer to them as mom and dad either, all though I think they would really want me to, I just don't feel comfortable. Maybe one day.

TnJ041809 Posted:

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I don't right now but maybe when we are married. I don't know though it seems weird to call someone else mom.
kabo0831 Posted:

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maybe after we get married but now its just a joke that we call FFIL and FMIL mom and dad

Chanwich Posted:

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well FH doesn't even call his stepdad 'dad' so it wouldn't be right for me to. His mom I just call by her first name and I probably won't call her 'mom' either.

stephlovesseyi Posted:

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I call his parents Mom and Dad now, because of his culture,Nigerian, its rude to call them by their first name. It felt weird in the beginning cause weren't even engaged yet, but know it feels right.

beram63 Posted:

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Posted by ilonka020

I don't refer to them as mom and dad either, all though I think they would really want me to, I just don't feel comfortable. Maybe one day.



yeah, same here. i've always had trouble w/ what to call other people's parents (Mr & Mrs. ______ or what?) i just avoid calling them anything bc i feel uncomfortable with all of the options. maybe that'll change at some point w/ FMIL.
Tori9299 Posted:

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Yeah I do most of the time, it is the first time I feel funny saying that.

JKFris09 Posted:

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I dont now....but I probably will after we get married.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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No, I still call his dad Mr. The relationship is kind of weird. His dad is remarried and I call his wife by her first name but he never said I should call him by his first name so I don't. I've never met his mom and I'm not sure if I will. Makes things easier... don't have to worry about having a crazy mother in law!

Dr Meg Posted:

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I call them by their first names...don't know if I will call them Mom and Dad after we're married.

IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Nope call FMIL by her first name since she wouldnt let me call her Mrs.... anymore. After we are married, i cant see calling someone else mom

NYMetsBride Posted:

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Nope! I call her by her first name. However, FH calls my mother 'Ma'

tye85 Posted:

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Yea I fell awkward caling them mom and dad, so i am usually very uncomfortable calling them anything!

meli722 Posted:

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no way i have my own mom and dad to call mom and dad, i never really liked that anyway

Jflod710 Posted:

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nope and i dont think i will.... to me its too odd calling them mom and dad when your parents are your mom and dad!!!! to me its wierd

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