QOTD: Thursday 2/25.........

Panamasweet Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:08 AM

QOTD: Thursday 2/25.........

Do you have any regrets about your planning so far? Are you second guessing your vendors or your date or your BP?

I think I have 2nd guessed everything except my florist. I booked everything so early so I could get 2009 rates that I really didnt take the time to look around. I do feel I have great vendors and I feel I got great deals but I just wonder.......

As far as my BP, the only person I have 2nd guessed and have since eliminated was my MOH. My other girls are great and have really been there. Although I havent really asked for any help because i am a control freak and feel I have to do everything myself, they have offered.

MrsandMrFuller Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:10 AM

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So far no 2nd guessing to anything I hope it continues this way otherwise I will be very frustrated

evita2781 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:11 AM

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I second guessed my dress for a quick second b/c I bought it so early and not the sihloutte i always wanted - but everytime i look at it, i fall in love w/ it more and more.

WeezyGirl2354 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:13 AM

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So far - no. We have been really comfortable with all of our choices but we still have a ways to go so knowing me, that feeling might come up at some time.

dCa51899 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:14 AM

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I haven't made many decisions yet....only booked the chuch & the RH, but I think there is always a bit of 2nd guessing going on esp when seeing other ppl's weddings. I just feel like there are so many beautiful RHs out there/ so many great ideas, vendors, whatever it is, that we're bound to be like hmmm? what if?? So, far I haven't had any major 2nd guessing sort of doubts, but I think its only natural since we want everything to be perfect and hope that you didn't make the wrong choice

DMLHeartsCRM Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:15 AM

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I regretted my photographer. Because he was a friend of the best man, and the FH was sooo confident about this guy. But then he basically told us he wanted to be paid in full BEFORE the wedding and I wasnt cool with that. We didnt sign a contract just left a $100 deposit.

We just met with Patken tuesday night and I'm more than sure we're going to book with them.

dianeb888 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:15 AM

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so far I haven't second guessed anything, I hope it continues that way

smilesjc81 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:23 AM

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yup lost a $500 deposit on a hall, cause i realized they weren't the best choice, but i LOVE LOVE where i am having it now :)

jenn_eric Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:24 AM

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No second guessing so far, let's hope it continues!

HoopsnYoyo Posted: Feb 25, 2010 09:46 AM

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I'm second guessing my BP. I asked a girl to be my BM and now we dont really talk. I see her almost every weekend but she seems like such a B---H whenever we're together.

I dont get it!

Moonmist09 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 10:13 AM

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DML - if i was you i would ask for my $100 deposit back!

Moonmist09 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 10:15 AM

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wow! you eliminated your MOH! that's pretty big - lol.

just second guessed my dress for a quick minute. but i tried it on again and i love love love it!

i haven't booked flowers or limo's yet - but i'm not second guessing anything else

Notwedyet08 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 10:43 AM

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So far I'm not 2nd guessing anything (anymore at least) I went through a pd of doubt over or RH. I wanted something beyond our financial means and was trying my hardest to get it. Now i'm happy with my decision and when i keep seeing other bills come in-i'm even happier! LOL!

And i guess now that i think about it-i'm 2nd guessing my BP-not the girls i already asked; but trying to decide if i shoudl add FH's best friend. She & I have become close-she was a great help planning our eparty. My only reservation about doing that would mean adding another groomsman...not sure who FH would ask.

Moonmist09 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 10:46 AM

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Notwedyet - where did you decide to get married?

jackieee Posted: Feb 25, 2010 10:56 AM

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I always second guess myself! It's just who I am hahaha

I second guessed my dress right away! I even second guess my RH, but I LOVE it. I'm crazy heehe

I'm happy with all my decisions, but I worry after and doubt myself. It passes though! I gotta trust myself.

TheFutureMrs2011 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 10:56 AM

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Second guessing my date.. Thinking maybe I should have went with first weekend in May.......

MissingLI Posted: Feb 25, 2010 11:42 AM

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So far so good on the second guessing. I'm very happy with all the vendors we have picked so far.

I guess the only thing that I second guessed was having my brother walk me half way down the aisle and my dad the other half. I decided right before I spoke to them to have my brother be my Man of Honor and let my dad have the full honor of walking me. I'm VERY happy with that decision and that my brother was happy to do it.

cMm2011 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 11:44 AM

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I second guess my date, but thats bc i didnt really want it to begin with....oh well lol

cMm2011 Posted: Feb 25, 2010 11:45 AM

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Posted by HoopsnYoyo

I'm second guessing my BP. I asked a girl to be my BM and now we dont really talk. I see her almost every weekend but she seems like such a B---H whenever we're together.

I dont get it!

I'm actually having the same issue...what do you think you are going to do bc i dont know what to do