***QOTD ** Thursday, May 8th***

Good morning Fabulous 09'ers! Happy Thursday!

Today's 2-Part Question of the Day:

**Name the one person who has made your wedding planning a living hell or just difficult and why?**

And to end on a positive note:

**Name the one person who has made your wedding planning a dream come true and why?**

Have a TERRIFIC THURSDAY!

A living hell: my BM’s bcuz they cannot decide on a dress and since they cannot decide on a dress I cant work color ideas into other areas of the wedding!!!

A dream come true: MY FH!!!!! Bcuz he always ends up saying: “If you REALLY want it, get it”

my middle sis is either jealous or just not happy in general and it annoys and hurts me at the same time

FH has made all wonderful, he helps so much, has compormised with me as to what the weddign will involve and really has ha some great ideas of his own- like the cake


to FH and hope sis comes around

A living hell... I can honestly say nobody at this point, so far my planning has gone very smooth. I am letting the girls pick their own dresses, but it's the color I chose, so that helped with my color scheme.

A dream... My FH and you girls. I have learned so much and have gotten so many ideas and vendor recommendations from this site. Thanks again.

Have a great day!

Living hell... my MOH. She has been great with coming with me to things, but it's like torturous for her and she indirectly lets me know that. Ugh...

Dream... my FH and my parents. My parents have been so amazing & supportive ever since we got engaged. My FH is just wonderful.. he isletting my vision for the wedding become a reality

My father and lil sister have made my planning somewhat of a living hell. Whole other story.

My Uncle, FH and LIW and The Knot have made the planning a joy.

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Posted by frenchy702

My FH is just wonderful.. he isletting my vision for the wedding become a reality

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Frenchy, your FH is so nice!!

I can there hasnt been anyone who has made my life hell.

Dream = everyone who I get advice from for the wedding (co-workers, bridal party, friends and everyone on here )

A LIVING HELL - ACTUALLY NOBODY BECAUSE JOE(FH) & I ALWAYS DO WHAT WE WANT & DONT LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS MAY HAVE TO SAY THATS NEGATIVE.

A DREAM - FH BECAUSE HE IS ALWAYS RIGH TTHERE TO SUPPORT EVERYTING I ASK & HE IS SO HELPFUL & ABOVE ALL BECAUSE HE DOESNT MIND HAVING EVERYTHING I ASK FOR. HE'S THE BESTEST!

No one cause no one is raining on my parade


My fh cause without him... this wedding would have never happened... he is paying for it and help planning it and is just as excitied for it

No one has made planning a living hell.

Everyone has been wonderful being supportive and helped me. My cousin Lisa ran over the first week I got engaged and gave me books for wedding planning which I thought was sweet. I also have my Parents and my FIL's who are being amazing with this whole planning process!

So far nobody has made planning a living hell.

My parents have made it wonderful, they are giving me and FH so much more than I would have ever imagine and my mom is so helpful in making decisions. FH always says 'whatever you want' so I need actual opinions, and my mom is great with that.

So far no one has made anything difficult.. but that's bc we haven't really asked for anyones opinion on anything yet! haha

FH has been awesome with all the planning though, he called to set up all of our appointments with vendors and didn't complain once even though we went to see 9 of them in 3 days!

Living Hell: my FMIL and FSIL b/c they ruined by wedding and forced us to move it.

Dream Come True: our BM. he went with me to pick the flowers, the favors, and the invitation's. he knows the owners of the place so they gave me a great price.

The one person who has made planning hell...I guess that's a toss up between my mom and grandma. But I think my grandma is definitely worse. Perfect example: I was showing my aunt some pictures of cakes Nick and I liked and my grandma started shaking her head and said that I was selfish unless I got a chocolate cake because that's what everyone in our family would want and that the cakes I wanted in general made me selfish because she didn't like them. EVERYTHING is like that. The dresses I wanted for my BMs, the flowers I want, the colors in my color scheme. And I can't get away from it because she lives with us and I can't talk to a single person in the house without her eavesdropping or butting into the conversation.

The person who has made planning heaven? That's definitely FH. He is so involved in everything and we have such similar tastes. It makes everything fun and exciting because he's down for whatever I want and we have such a good time doing it all!

A Living Hell? My little sister. She claims that her MOH dress has to be more expensive and distinctive than all of the other BM dresses though I do have a Matron of Honor as well. She also said my Reception Hall looked like a campground messhall

A dream? My Mommy. She totally listens to me everytime I call and complain about some wedding related thing and she is always excited about everything I pick out.

Thankfully no one has made planning a living hell. FH's parents aren't the greatest, but we are not at the living hell point....yet....

Everyone has been very supportive, but especially FH...he wants me to be happy and have my perfect day.

My parents have made my wedding planning a living hell. Especially my mother.

My subsitute MOH 'ChristineNRalph' and my FH has made my wedding planning dream come true. Christine for being my partner in crime and FH for not killing me after finding out that our wedding budget increased by 20K.

FH and I are solo in all this so nobody has really had an effect!