QOTD: What makes you nervous or stressed about your wedding?
Sandradv121
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QOTD: What makes you nervous or stressed about your wedding?
Figured I get this to you girlies now since I am not sure when I will be able to later:
What makes you nervous or stressed about your wedding? Is it your budget? The actual day of? The RH? Your Mother or FMIL?Rain? Snow? Flowers? And how are you dealing?
Just a side note though: No matter how nervous or stressed you are, it will come together in the end! I promise!
Mine is the budget. It kills me. Like I always say, all i see is $$ flash before my eyes. and the other thing is my momzilla. She can be so pushy at times. For instance, she wanted her MOB dress to be same color as the BM dresses! Why would she want that? She claims she picked the color first, but I beg to differ. So I told her absolutely not and she was so pushy and pissy that I actually had to block her out mentally.
If you weren't for you guys, I think I would go Crazy... I am trying very hard not to go bald before my wedding....I may rip my hair out!
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what makes me nervouse is those that dont respond and when i call them the night before my head count they dont answer i assume are not coming just show up and those that respond no just show up! that means i have to be tacky and go to the bridal sweet and shell out the extra money for these johnny come latelys or im nervouse bout a vendor not showing lol
rocketsummer17
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Money...hands down...
Someone I know is getting married in April and just realzied she is thousands of dollars short...And her parents/his parents are not giving them any money whatsoever...I am terrified that will happen to us...
stinenandy2010
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My biggest fear is falling while walking down the aisle. I am also dreading fmil...she doesn't hide her emotions, so I'll leave it at that.
Other than that, I think I should be pretty calm....besides if anything arises, that's why I have my DOC!
ETA: No longer worried about money after getting my huge refund from the fed!!!!!!!! woo hoo!!!!!
Kiki1103
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Yes money, now that a lot of my vendors are booked (just got band contract as well ahhhhhh) I am starting to see how much money I owe. I am currently under budget now, but it still seems like a crazy number.
JillandJoe
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I think money stresses me most. We are paying for dj, photo, video, favors, invites, STD's, limos, tuxes, gifts for bms and gms,hair and makeup for me and any extras. I worry about tipping everyone and paying all the bills without going into debt.
chrisandletizia
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money and FMIL easy!
Sandradv121
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Money. Such an issue. I swear if I won a billion dollars, I would pay for one big wedding for all of us and just get this over and done with.
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I would have to say first is the budget! I worry about this everyday. Both of our mom and dads tell us not to worry that it will be fine and it will come together. But it is hard knowing you have to save X amount by this day!
Also the thought of rain will stress me out when it is closer! Our ceremony is going to be outside and I dont't think I will like it too much if it is inside.
I feel bad your mom is stressing you out I dont get why some ppl in our lives wouldn't think before speaking come on we have enough to worry about a color of a dress should not be one of them!
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Money. Such an issue. I swear if I won a billion dollars, I would pay for one big wedding for all of us and just get this over and done with.
now that would be sick!
Mrs Z To Be
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I'm nervous about the ceremony!! I HATE being the center of attention... Kinda hard to avoid on your wedding, I suppose!
soontobecruz
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Not deciding which vendors are better stresses me. Sometimes I find there are to many choices and I can't make up my mind!!!
Jen2525
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definitely worried about budget.....and booking a vendor and then they go out of business!(i have nightmares about that) lol!!
T E R I
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like everyone else, money, especially now that we have the house
Lsorrent
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I have a few, but nothing I can really control:
1- Money (ok I can kind of control this) - I know we have a decent sized budget, but it's amazing how quickly it all goes
2- Walking down the aisle and falling on my face
3- FH doing something really stupid, or saying something stupid (he's known to be a joker, but the wedding day will not be the time)
4- BIGGEST FEAR: My wedding being a bomb. I have this fear that the band is going to be terrible (even though it's Code Bleu and I think they're awesome) and no one is going to dance. I think that's just me being paranoid though.
SummerBride10
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Money is defintly #1. After that, I'd say crying too much and my make up running all over my face.
RedsBride
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i'm not too nervous or stressed just yet lol. maybe just little things like the weather being horrible or family feuds going on
AdriandSteve
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I'm afraid no one will come (i'm ridiculous i know) I'm afraid no one will dance $ of course And i'm afraid my mom will be psycho that day lol
OH.. and i'm worried about possibly being sick that day lol
Rosalind_75
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The ceremony!!!
I'm so nervous about everyone looking at me. I hate being the center of attention.
I wish FH could walk down the aisle instead of me
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