QOTD: What makes you nervous or stressed about your wedding?

Original post by Sandradv121

Feb 18, 2009 08:41 AM

Figured I get this to you girlies now since I am not sure when I will be able to later:

What makes you nervous or stressed about your wedding? Is it your budget? The actual day of? The RH? Your Mother or FMIL?Rain? Snow? Flowers? And how are you dealing?

Just a side note though: No matter how nervous or stressed you are, it will come together in the end! I promise!

Mine is the budget. It kills me. Like I always say, all i see is $$ flash before my eyes. and the other thing is my momzilla. She can be so pushy at times. For instance, she wanted her MOB dress to be same color as the BM dresses! Why would she want that? She claims she picked the color first, but I beg to differ. So I told her absolutely not and she was so pushy and pissy that I actually had to block her out mentally.

If you weren't for you guys, I think I would go Crazy... I am trying very hard not to go bald before my wedding....I may rip my hair out!

Jenna_and_John Posted: Feb 18, 2009 10:36 AM

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Rain/humidity and how I will look, is that shallow? lol I just feel anxious about how my hair/makeup will end up coming out and if it will be as perfect as I hope for...

Future Mrs H Posted: Feb 18, 2009 10:38 AM

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I am afraid that noone will come and I wont hit my minimum

MayBride2010 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 10:41 AM

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Definitely the $...I am already stressing over it

emc282rjm Posted: Feb 18, 2009 10:48 AM

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1. Money. Obviously. I worry all the time about money. EVERY time I buy something I don't really need, I think 'Well, I hope you didn't want nice flowers at the wedding' or 'there's one more rose gone.' Yucky.

2. That I will disappoint people. I know it's my wedding and my vision, but I want people to be happy, and to have fun. I'm worried my girls will hate the dresses I haven't even picked out, people will think the centerpieces are ugly, etc. I'm a people pleaser, so it's hard to think only of myself here.

Trose Posted: Feb 18, 2009 10:54 AM

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Budget I cant really worry about b/c we have what we have :/

Weather is a big one for me considering I'm getting married in January! No rain please! I don't care if it snows as long as it is bright and sunny out

Lastly, not getting a guest list from the in-law - EVER!!

Nichole2010 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 11:07 AM

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im scared its going to rain...i want nothing more than beautiful FALL pictures outside... i love fall, its my favorite time of the year, and i have been dreaming of fh & i standing outside in the beautiful fall leaves....if it rains, that wll ruin that...

im also worried about the BM...hes a big drinker, and im scared hes going to get wasted & piss me off lol

lori7570 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 11:26 AM

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Everything stresses me out about the wedding....

I guess the biggest thing is that it won't be 'perfect'

grrulz Posted: Feb 18, 2009 11:38 AM

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my biggest fear is falling and crying a lot!!

Kimbiz1 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 11:40 AM

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Posted by stinenandy2010

My biggest fear is falling while walking down the aisle. I am also dreading fmil...she doesn't hide her emotions, so I'll leave it at that.

Other than that, I think I should be pretty calm....besides if anything arises, that's why I have my DOC!

ETA: No longer worried about money after getting my huge refund from the fed!!!!!!!! woo hoo!!!!!

CONGRATS on your refund!!!!

Kimbiz1 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 11:41 AM

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I am most stressed out about the behavior of my FFIL. That is why we are having our EP, it's like an audition for him. If he messes up there, then he will NOT be allowed near the wedding. This is one time I'm really, really happy FOB is a retired SGT!!!

mbscheer Posted: Feb 18, 2009 12:47 PM

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1. Paying for it!!!-- That stress is so big!!!
2. Will people dance at my wedding because it is an afternoon wedding?
3. Will FMIL come and if she does will she make a scene?
4. Will my students make it down the aisle

marrymybestfriend Posted: Feb 18, 2009 01:04 PM

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getting sick the week of... and shaving my face and mess it up

Kimbalina Posted: Feb 18, 2009 01:05 PM

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

getting sick the week of... and shaving my face and mess it up

Take vitamin C and go to a shop and have it done.

Nichole2010 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 01:12 PM

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

getting sick the week of... and shaving my face and mess it up

haha i think im gonna make my FH go and have a professional do his face...because he stands in the mirror for an hour now making sure everything is even, and if hes nervous that day, hes just gonna be a mess lol

Nichole2010 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 01:13 PM

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Posted by Kimbiz1

I am most stressed out about the behavior of my FFIL. That is why we are having our EP, it's like an audition for him. If he messes up there, then he will NOT be allowed near the wedding. This is one time I'm really, really happy FOB is a retired SGT!!!

how does FFIL act??

angelatp Posted: Feb 18, 2009 01:16 PM

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my budget...all else I can deal with.

Bride825 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 01:53 PM

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Money

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Feb 18, 2009 01:57 PM

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I am def. most stressed about how the weather will turn out and my hair......such a freak about how my hair looks!!!!!!!

deanna225 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 02:02 PM

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believe it or not what stress me out about my wedding is the bridesmaid dresses and my sister. i should be worrying about the bugdet but im not worried about that at all.