Another BIG tip ladies that I saw an expert on oprah say and it really does make sense is don't stop and talk to anyone even if they are trying to help you.
They look for people they think are more submissive..They gave an example that lets say youre carrying groceries and a guy offers to carry it for you just look right at him and say NO...And even if you say no dont start apologizing, they look for weaknesses, they look for people who stop and say oh its ok but thank you so much. Just say NO and nothing else, they try again and say NO again and be firm
Point is just be a B*tch. You're out alone at night dont stop to help a guy out with directions, don't let them help you with anything either...Also show confidence, don't look scared if you see a guy walk by you and you're alone, stand up straight and look right at them if anything...I give everyone dirty looks when they walk by me. They don't want to deal with the loud mouth women that will go right off
so true...everyone gets the screwface
alot of times for work I have to go to places that i've never been before so i'm Super Beeyotch when i'm out there.
I saw (I think on the same episode) that if you should get into a bad situation you should NEVER let the attacker take you to an alternate location b/c he is probably taking you somewhere that he'll have the upper hand and or secluded. So RUN if he tries...at least that's what she said..
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
dont get between a woman and her jewels...lol
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are you serious! I'm out there all the time for field work and FH & I are out there all the time b/c we like the restaurants....no where is safe ladies...keep your eyes open!
you think thats bad, my fh lives on 42nd
omg sweetie, be careful! Try to avoid at night if you can or bring pepper spray (i'm usually law abiding but ***!!) I HATE commercial areas like that (if it's the area i'm thinking about) b/c of this exact reason. They are so empty late afternoon/evening that it makes me soooo nervous!!
I always carry my keys in my hand with one key sticking out incase I need to stab someone, or something...lol....STAB AND TWIST! that is what I was taught when I had my externship with the Federal Probation Department...the wound will bleed more and hurt like a biotch!
Oh wow I always do that too
haha...thought I was the only one..guess it's that city girl training. I also always put my cell to my ear regardless if i'm talking or not. For some reason I feel that they will leave me alone if they think I can easily call for help.
Actually FH tells me never to talk on the phone if you are nervous in an area.
wooow..really, I had no idea that was a bad idea. I'm out late in the field too much not to heed this advice...thanks really
wow, i had no idea either! I used to always pretend to talk on the phone!
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
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Another BIG tip ladies that I saw an expert on oprah say and it really does make sense is don't stop and talk to anyone even if they are trying to help you.
They look for people they think are more submissive..They gave an example that lets say youre carrying groceries and a guy offers to carry it for you just look right at him and say NO...And even if you say no dont start apologizing, they look for weaknesses, they look for people who stop and say oh its ok but thank you so much. Just say NO and nothing else, they try again and say NO again and be firm
Point is just be a B*tch. You're out alone at night dont stop to help a guy out with directions, don't let them help you with anything either...Also show confidence, don't look scared if you see a guy walk by you and you're alone, stand up straight and look right at them if anything...I give everyone dirty looks when they walk by me. They don't want to deal with the loud mouth women that will go right off
so true...everyone gets the screwface
alot of times for work I have to go to places that i've never been before so i'm Super Beeyotch when i'm out there.
I saw (I think on the same episode) that if you should get into a bad situation you should NEVER let the attacker take you to an alternate location b/c he is probably taking you somewhere that he'll have the upper hand and or secluded. So RUN if he tries...at least that's what she said..
YES they said the exact same thing...they said to do whatever you can to not let them take you to an alternate location...Don't know if it was the oprah show you saw this on but they also said the same thing...But im sure its something that is always said in these situations.
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
wow thats awesome..actually i'm known to be a hot headed italian..so who knows i may act the same way..some dude knocked me over in a club once and i went off on him!! lol i was ready to kick his a s s..lol then he stayed away from me all night!
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
My dad always told me to seperate my money from my ID for this reason!
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
wow thats awesome..actually i'm known to be a hot headed italian..so who knows i may act the same way..some dude knocked me over in a club once and i went off on him!! lol i was ready to kick his a s s..lol then he stayed away from me all night!
LOL there you go see...yeah same thing happened a few weeks ago, i was at a club with friends and this guy put his hand on my waist to dance with me so i told him to take his hands off of me and pushed him. He got mad so i pushed him even harder and he fell into the crowd then he got even more mad but i flipped out and got in his face and then some guys pulled me back and while they did i tried kicking him in his head.
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
wow thats awesome..actually i'm known to be a hot headed italian..so who knows i may act the same way..some dude knocked me over in a club once and i went off on him!! lol i was ready to kick his a s s..lol then he stayed away from me all night!
LOL there you go see...yeah same thing happened a few weeks ago, i was at a club with friends and this guy put his hand on my waist to dance with me so i told him to take his hands off of me and pushed him. He got mad so i pushed him even harder and he fell into the crowd then he got even more mad but i flipped out and got in his face and then some guys pulled me back and while they did i tried kicking him in his head.
*note to self*
dont piss off Denise.
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
wow thats awesome..actually i'm known to be a hot headed italian..so who knows i may act the same way..some dude knocked me over in a club once and i went off on him!! lol i was ready to kick his a s s..lol then he stayed away from me all night!
LOL there you go see...yeah same thing happened a few weeks ago, i was at a club with friends and this guy put his hand on my waist to dance with me so i told him to take his hands off of me and pushed him. He got mad so i pushed him even harder and he fell into the crowd then he got even more mad but i flipped out and got in his face and then some guys pulled me back and while they did i tried kicking him in his head.
*note to self*
dont piss off Denise.
well just dont rob me or try to rub up on me
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
wow thats awesome..actually i'm known to be a hot headed italian..so who knows i may act the same way..some dude knocked me over in a club once and i went off on him!! lol i was ready to kick his a s s..lol then he stayed away from me all night!
LOL there you go see...yeah same thing happened a few weeks ago, i was at a club with friends and this guy put his hand on my waist to dance with me so i told him to take his hands off of me and pushed him. He got mad so i pushed him even harder and he fell into the crowd then he got even more mad but i flipped out and got in his face and then some guys pulled me back and while they did i tried kicking him in his head.
*note to self*
dont piss off Denise.
wow denise!!! you go girl!!! just don't come after me! lol
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
wow thats awesome..actually i'm known to be a hot headed italian..so who knows i may act the same way..some dude knocked me over in a club once and i went off on him!! lol i was ready to kick his a s s..lol then he stayed away from me all night!
LOL there you go see...yeah same thing happened a few weeks ago, i was at a club with friends and this guy put his hand on my waist to dance with me so i told him to take his hands off of me and pushed him. He got mad so i pushed him even harder and he fell into the crowd then he got even more mad but i flipped out and got in his face and then some guys pulled me back and while they did i tried kicking him in his head.
*note to self*
dont piss off Denise.
well just dont rob me or try to rub up on me
hmmmph...that might be tough...
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LOL, you got it back!!! good for you!! was he so freaked out you chased him that he gave it up????
hahaha thats exactly what happened, he was probably like wait no this isn't supposed to happen, first he got back on the train after i ran out but i saw him so i ran back on the train and from across the train i was yelling so loud at him as i was running towards him...I had a HUGE bag with so many things so i pulled out my perfume bottle lol.
HOLY CRAP! thats Awsome!!!!!! you go charlies angel!
lol i wish i can say it was all my plan but i really had no clue what i was doing, its kind of like an out of body experience you can't believe whats happening and only after you realize it
wow denise!! thats awesome..i'd probably be running in fear..you can be my bodyguard anytime!
you just never know how you'll act...My mom also was walking down the street in the city and she turned around and a guy had his hand in her purse and she grabbed him by the neck which is real weird picturing my mom doing that lol.
wow thats awesome..actually i'm known to be a hot headed italian..so who knows i may act the same way..some dude knocked me over in a club once and i went off on him!! lol i was ready to kick his a s s..lol then he stayed away from me all night!
LOL there you go see...yeah same thing happened a few weeks ago, i was at a club with friends and this guy put his hand on my waist to dance with me so i told him to take his hands off of me and pushed him. He got mad so i pushed him even harder and he fell into the crowd then he got even more mad but i flipped out and got in his face and then some guys pulled me back and while they did i tried kicking him in his head.
*note to self*
dont piss off Denise.
well just dont rob me or try to rub up on me
hmmmph...that might be tough...
which one lol jk
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Yeah, I read about that today, thats crazy. Girls shouldnt walk by themselves, walk with a guy or with a big guard dog, lol.
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Yeah, I read about that today, thats crazy. Girls shouldnt walk by themselves, walk with a guy or with a big guard dog, lol.
i always used to walk alone, take trains at night alone, not often but i have. Sometimes you have no choice
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I know!!! I was so worried about my sister! We live 5 minutes away!
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Yeah, I read about that today, thats crazy. Girls shouldnt walk by themselves, walk with a guy or with a big guard dog, lol.
i always used to walk alone, take trains at night alone, not often but i have. Sometimes you have no choice
Yeah I know me too, I do mostly everything on my own, after work, go here and there but I try not to take the trains or walk on my own at night
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Yeah, I read about that today, thats crazy. Girls shouldnt walk by themselves, walk with a guy or with a big guard dog, lol.
i always used to walk alone, take trains at night alone, not often but i have. Sometimes you have no choice
Yeah I know me too, I do mostly everything on my own, after work, go here and there but I try not to take the trains or walk on my own at night
yeah it s*cks bc sometimes its like what else can you do. And then you hear things like this and really makes you think
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Yeah, I read about that today, thats crazy. Girls shouldnt walk by themselves, walk with a guy or with a big guard dog, lol.
i always used to walk alone, take trains at night alone, not often but i have. Sometimes you have no choice
Yeah I know me too, I do mostly everything on my own, after work, go here and there but I try not to take the trains or walk on my own at night
yeah it s*cks bc sometimes its like what else can you do. And then you hear things like this and really makes you think
Exactly, sometimes you have no choice but to go and do things on your own. I really feel safe in Astoria, its like my sec home, but now I dont know , really scary
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Yeah, I read about that today, thats crazy. Girls shouldnt walk by themselves, walk with a guy or with a big guard dog, lol.
i always used to walk alone, take trains at night alone, not often but i have. Sometimes you have no choice
Yeah I know me too, I do mostly everything on my own, after work, go here and there but I try not to take the trains or walk on my own at night
yeah it s*cks bc sometimes its like what else can you do. And then you hear things like this and really makes you think
Exactly, sometimes you have no choice but to go and do things on your own. I really feel safe in Astoria, its like my sec home, but now I dont know , really scary
yeah especially in astoria i feel safe...numerous times ill walk down 20th ave at night instead of taking ditmars, like when youre walking from the 30 and 40s streets up to the 70's or vice versa...20th ave is real quiet not alot of ppl out.
