so i was at a photographer on Sat night and he asked us if we had any siblings. FH said yes, i said, 'umm...... well....'
Long story short i have a twin who i met umm.. 9 years ago but i still dont consider her family.
Anyway, do you think that it's wrong if i say no because i dont want to have her in any pics with my mom or my family cuz most of them have met her once IF that. She is going to be in my BP but not my MOH.
I kinda feel bad, but i kinda don't lol.
JillandJoe
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Its your day. you pics should include whomever you want, not what the photog wants. Don't feel guilty for anything you decide is right!!
Goodluck!
soontobecruz
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If you think it will be awkward or you will feel guilty the day of, you can always take some with her and some w/o her. Remember they are only proofs you don't have to buy them.
AdriandSteve
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Posted by soontobecruz
If you think it will be awkward or you will feel guilty the day of, you can always take some with her and some w/o her. Remember they are only proofs you don't have to buy them.
aah.. good point lol
Kimbiz1
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Most photogs want to make sure they cover all of your 'must have' shots. It's a standard kind of thing. Let him/her know that it's not imperative that she's in any one particular shot. JMO Good luck.
StaceYums81
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Theres nothing wrong with that, I wouldn't have her in the family shots if you don't consider her to be family...
RitasEngaged
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Posted by StaceYums81
Theres nothing wrong with that, I wouldn't have her in the family shots if you don't consider her to be family...
ITA but i think it would be nice if you take a pic of you two together
SummerBride10
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I dont think its wrong...do whatever feels right for you!
deanna225
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i also think its wrong, that is ur sister and if she is good enough to be in ur bp u should take a pic with her. cuz say u wanna take a bp photo u gonna leave her out. but its ur day u do what u want
Jna2010
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i think not taking any pics with her at all would kinda make the situation awkward for everyone JMO though... i wouldnt go nuts with it per say but a few for memories isnt a bad idea, plus im sure it'll make her feel less of an outsider and more accepted
