Is you FH in to tattoo's? Maybe he'd prefer a tattooed band. I know its not the same... My FH is a mechanic and may do it so he won't have to wear his to work, but thankfully he's excited about looking for his and wearing it for the rest of the time.
bigislandbride82
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
My FH also doesn't really want to wear a ring. He doesn't wear ANY jewelry! Not even a watch! He says he will get a tattoo, but he doesn't have any tattoos, so I doubt that will happen either. I'll make him wear it though LOL
KristyANDMatt224
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
FH wont wear one. He is a firefighter so he cant wear it at work. Hes also a softball junkie and he cant wear it while playing. It bothered me at first but now i dont care. It doesnt change our relationship or his commitment either way. He wants a cheapo one for just the day of. He says he wants to get it tattooed but i think he will chicken out. If he does tattoo it, so will i
jassy119
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
Posted by 2013Bride
Posted by jassy119
LOL My FH said the same thing! He said he wants an engagement ring! Thankfully he feels this way because I would be highly upset if he didn't want to wear it. Its more than just a ring, it symbolizes us and our marriage and commitment to each other. I'd tell FH too bad, you need to get used to it, your wearing it! PERIOD!
Posted by Courtz
This sounds like my FH... he wants Diamonds in his band. Bling Bling... I'm in trouble.
But I'd be upset too... I'm not into tattoo's but I like it of a ring or my name if he doesn't want to wear a ring.
Ahhahaha!! Ohhh these men!!
LOL.. FH would be fine with just a plain band but I want him to have bling! Nothing crazy but I pointed out a few to him that I like and he like them to.. YAY! lol
Irishbride16
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
Posted by KristyANDMatt224
FH wont wear one. He is a firefighter so he cant wear it at work. Hes also a softball junkie and he cant wear it while playing. It bothered me at first but now i dont care. It doesnt change our relationship or his commitment either way. He wants a cheapo one for just the day of. He says he wants to get it tattooed but i think he will chicken out. If he does tattoo it, so will i
Its true though ....i mean i am upset but i understand and i love the brat so that is all that matters ...LOL..
Thank you for the advice ladies!!!! You made me feel so much better
vanillataco
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
I really thought my FH was the only one who doesn't want to wear a ring. I know his stance on jewelry from the very beginning so I don't really care. I'm not even going to get him a band to save on the money. lol
Butterflyfaye
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
Posted by 2013Bride
Id' be upset if my fiance' said that... thankfully my fiance' is looking forward to getting his ring! hahaha... he asked me when he was getting HIS engagement ring!
Why not get him one?
FH kept teasing me so I got him a stainless steel one that's engraved with a love quote in latin. Most people can't read it, but it means a lot to us.
He wears it whenever he's out of his house :) He's getting used to the ring concept.
teacherteacher
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
Posted by Butterflyfaye
Posted by 2013Bride
Id' be upset if my fiance' said that... thankfully my fiance' is looking forward to getting his ring! hahaha... he asked me when he was getting HIS engagement ring!
Why not get him one?
FH kept teasing me so I got him a stainless steel one that's engraved with a love quote in latin. Most people can't read it, but it means a lot to us.
He wears it whenever he's out of his house :) He's getting used to the ring concept.
My FH is doing the same thing! I think I'll look into thsi for VDay - and tell him it's a training ring to get used to it too
LilinBobby
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
Oh I got Bobby an engagement ring after he proposed. If I was gonna wear one so was he. he wears it on his right hand. He wears it everyday so he can get used to having a ring on every day. I didn't ask him to...I just gave him one so far in advance that he couldnt say no. LOL
teacherteacher
Posted:
Member since
Re: Question
Posted by LilinBobby
Oh I got Bobby an engagement ring after he proposed. If I was gonna wear one so was he. he wears it on his right hand. He wears it everyday so he can get used to having a ring on every day. I didn't ask him to...I just gave him one so far in advance that he couldnt say no. LOL