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Irishbride16 Posted:

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Okay so last night i was talking to the FH about wedding bands and as we were talking about it ..he said to me that he does not want to wear one...( he HATES wearing any type of jewelry) i was upset but he said when we go out he will wear it...and i feel that sometimes he will forget and not wear it and that will get my upset ...does any of you ladies FH the same way??? i dunno what to do
JulesMarie27 Posted:

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OMG mine said the same freakin thing as we were picking them up from the jeweler!!! LOL I wanted to kill him. I told him if he doesn't, he better get something meaningful tattooed in that spot- like my name Hopefully they will come around and realize how much it means to us...
4Everhisgirl Posted:

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My FH doesn't really like to wear jewelry, but he said he will get a band that's really plain and hopefully he will get used to wearing it.

Pretty_In_Pink Posted:

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Posted by 4Everhisgirl

My FH doesn't really like to wear jewelry, but he said he will get a band that's really plain and hopefully he will get used to wearing it.

2013Bride Posted:

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Id' be upset if my fiance' said that... thankfully my fiance' is looking forward to getting his ring! hahaha... he asked me when he was getting HIS engagement ring!
Irishbride16 Posted:

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See his job too ...he works for sanitation in the city and i can def. under if he does not want to wear it to work ..but he told me that is he into the whole tradition thing and he said if i wear it u will be lucky so i really dont know if he will wear one

SummerBeauty Posted:

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My best friends husband works in maintenance and he has two bands--one that is really nice and has diamonds and one that is cheap and he doesn't care if it gets messed up that he wears to work. FH doesn't like jewelry but does like the Tungsten bands so that is what he'll be getting. Plain. No diamonds.

Irishbride16 Posted:

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Posted by SummerBeauty

My best friends husband works in maintenance and he has two bands--one that is really nice and has diamonds and one that is cheap and he doesn't care if it gets messed up that he wears to work. FH doesn't like jewelry but does like the Tungsten bands so that is what he'll be getting. Plain. No diamonds.



No he does not want to wear one at all...not even a plain looking one ..thats why im alittle upset with him...its like he does not want people to know he is married but then he said when he goes out he would wear it so i dunno what to think at this point
SummerBeauty Posted:

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Posted by Irishbride16


Posted by SummerBeauty

My best friends husband works in maintenance and he has two bands--one that is really nice and has diamonds and one that is cheap and he doesn't care if it gets messed up that he wears to work. FH doesn't like jewelry but does like the Tungsten bands so that is what he'll be getting. Plain. No diamonds.



No he does not want to wear one at all...not even a plain looking one ..thats why im alittle upset with him...its like he does not want people to know he is married but then he said when he goes out he would wear it so i dunno what to think at this point



Yeah..honestly I think I'd be bummed too if FH didn't want to wear a wedding band--maybe try to talk to him about why it's important to you-and try to listen to him and maybe you can come to some sort of compromise that makes you both comfortable.
Irishbride16 Posted:

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Yea I just had him read all the comments lol but he said I'm still not wearing one....and his father does not wear one too like father like son lol

jassy119 Posted:

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Posted by 2013Bride

Id' be upset if my fiance' said that... thankfully my fiance' is looking forward to getting his ring! hahaha... he asked me when he was getting HIS engagement ring!



LOL My FH said the same thing! He said he wants an engagement ring! Thankfully he feels this way because I would be highly upset if he didn't want to wear it. Its more than just a ring, it symbolizes us and our marriage and commitment to each other. I'd tell FH too bad, you need to get used to it, your wearing it! PERIOD!
BobbyDsgirl Posted:

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Tell him you will get a comfort fit band and it won't feel like he is wearing it! Honestly, ask your jeweler if they carry comfort fit it really does help the feel of a ring, it is the only way my fh will wear one

FutureMrsRuiz416 Posted:

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FH is looking forward to getting one but he doesnt want anything fancy... he likes the tungsten bands too. He works in construction and is down in holes all day so he wont wear it there, which I completely understand and I wouldnt want him to lose it anyway. Hes excited to wear it the rest of the time tho; I would be really upset if he didnt want to wear it.

Irishbride16 Posted:

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Posted by 2013Bride

Id' be upset if my fiance' said that... thankfully my fiance' is looking forward to getting his ring! hahaha... he asked me when he was getting HIS engagement ring!



LOL My FH said the same thing! He said he wants an engagement ring! Thankfully he feels this way because I would be highly upset if he didn't want to wear it. Its more than just a ring, it symbolizes us and our marriage and commitment to each other. I'd tell FH too bad, you need to get used to it, your wearing it! PERIOD!




Yea well i tried explaining that to him ...and he look at me and said really and said he does not care about what it symbolizes ....he is just plain stubborn
Courtz Posted:

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Posted by 2013Bride

Id' be upset if my fiance' said that... thankfully my fiance' is looking forward to getting his ring! hahaha... he asked me when he was getting HIS engagement ring!



This sounds like my FH... he wants Diamonds in his band. Bling Bling... I'm in trouble.

But I'd be upset too... I'm not into tattoo's but I like it of a ring or my name if he doesn't want to wear a ring.
AngieJusty Posted:

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FH doesn't want to wear his to work either, Erin. He's afraid of ruining it. I think I am going to force him to. I will be the wedding ring police.
2013Bride Posted:

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Posted by jassy119

LOL My FH said the same thing! He said he wants an engagement ring! Thankfully he feels this way because I would be highly upset if he didn't want to wear it. Its more than just a ring, it symbolizes us and our marriage and commitment to each other. I'd tell FH too bad, you need to get used to it, your wearing it! PERIOD!




Posted by Courtz

This sounds like my FH... he wants Diamonds in his band. Bling Bling... I'm in trouble.

But I'd be upset too... I'm not into tattoo's but I like it of a ring or my name if he doesn't want to wear a ring.




Ahhahaha!! Ohhh these men!!
JenniBella Posted:

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Mine can't wait. Ya right lol. Don't woe he will end up wearing one they all say it.

Not for nothing but they will look good with it on!!!!

Sweeks Posted:

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My FH said the same thing, because he is law enforcement, and didn't want to really wear it, but we talked about it a bit, and I said he can pick out any band he wants, the most 'manly' band he can find lol. but I felt the same way you did, just let him know how important it is to you.

Irishbride16 Posted:

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FH doesn't want to wear his to work either, Erin. He's afraid of ruining it. I think I am going to force him to. I will be the wedding ring police.



It just sucks b/c i know when he is not working he will not wear it ...i know and thats really going to upset me and the more i talk to him about he just rolls his eyes and said maybe ' i have to see' really give me a break here ...he is a too manly to wear one at all...like ' Price William '

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