Do you think I should send my invites out earlier than I was originally going to (July 15) so that if I get a bunch of no's early on, I can send out 'B' list invites, and not be as obvious about it?
thats a good idea, however, I found that i got most of the no's later on in the process. But its def worth a shot!!
My RSVP date is 9/1. Oh god I'm just praying for some no's. I'm scared. Its all I think about!
thats exactly what i'm doing. we made the A list reply date July 28th, and the B list reply date August 28th. this way they each get at least a month to respond
I would send the 'A' earlier then you would have since the 'yes' come in a lot quicker than the 'no'
yes!!!!!! thats a very good idea becasue Im now wishing I did that!!!! I sent out my invites May 15th and my RSVP date is july 1st and Im missing a BUNCH. Now I dont even know if I can send out my B list invites cause the ones im already waiting on might all be yes's, and I dont want extra people.
I had a b list but figured we definetly wouldnt need it.. well we ended up getting all of our NO's so late that it was too late to send out the B list.. so I just gave two of them to two of my friends,., and told them the situation they didnt care and one is def coming!
Posted by GinaZ
thats a good idea, however, I found that i got most of the no's later on in the process. But its def worth a shot!!
