Now I always thought that the bride and the groom would put their siblings in out of respect for the family? right? well my sister (who's planning) is having me in it and 2 other friends, and the groom is having 2 brothers and 1 other friend..but he never asked my brother to be in it, because they don't want an uneven bridal party..do you think its wrong not to include my brother? hes really upset and hurt about it, and to me i think he has a right to be..my sister disagrees
hmm I can totally understand why your brother would be hurt being the only sibling not in the bridal party! If the uneven number is the only thing standing in their way, I think they should reconsider. A bridal party should be made up of people who are most important to the couple, it shouldn't be about being symmetrical. My bridal party is SOOOOO uneven. We have 6 groomsmen and 3 bridesmaids (well, one is a MOH)
I agree. I'm having an uneven bridal party and I'm not worried about it at all. It's about including friends and family who are dear to you. Besides a god photographer will be able to produce a symmetric look even if the sides are uneven.
well my situation is a little different. I have 4 brothers and my fh only knows one of them well, so personally i wanted him to ask people who he wants to be in his side of the bridal party. I did ask his sister because i do know her pretty well. He was also going to ask the brother he does know. but i want him to walk me down the aisle so none of my brothers are groomsmen. I think that your sister could think of other ways to allow your brother to be apart of the day. Just my opinion
It is an unfortunate situation. FH and I split the BP evenly, it was easier that we only have one younger sibling each and they are our best man and maid of honor, but we had a similar problem with cousins!
I think that's messed up...uneven or not, that's blood. FH is having both my brothers in it out of respect and love for my family.
i def think he should have been a part of it but thats JMO, i can understand him being hurt, i feel bad for him!!! what about talking to your parents??? could they talk any sense into your sister???
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i def think he should have been a part of it but thats JMO, i can understand him being hurt, i feel bad for him!!! what about talking to your parents??? could they talk any sense into your sister???
