Question about email to FMIL
So as some of you may remember, my FMIL added 26 people to the guest list a while back, most of which she is pretty sure will not come but that she felt should be invited. Problem is, those 26 people send us over the limit of who will fit in the room. Some days, I don't worry and say 'I have to trust they are not going to come' - they are all older, live in FL or TX (not here) and some are on dialysis, etc. Some days, though, I get very nervous and wonder what I will do if they say YES! Will my RH allow us to go over the limit for the room? Will I have to tell them they cannot come? (Or will FMIL? Since I am not)
SO .... I ordered my invites and was thinking of sending her this email when I am close to sending them out. Can you tell me what you think?
Hi,
I am getting ready to send the invitations in the next couple of weeks and just wanted to make sure that everyone on your list should still be invited. The people you added a while ago, who I know you say are not going to come, sent us about 15 people over the amount of people that will fit in the room and since everyone else is a very close family or friend, I just wanted to make sure that they are should all still be on the list - if we don't get the no's we are expecting, some people are going to have to be told that they cannot come and of course no one wants that. Can you just double check the list and let me know? I am double checking mine and removing the guest of a single friend where I can for now. I hagte to even ask, because I know they are your father's brothers and sisters and cousins, but since we have such limited space, I want to avoid any problems later.
Thanks girls!!!
SO .... I ordered my invites and was thinking of sending her this email when I am close to sending them out. Can you tell me what you think?
Hi,
I am getting ready to send the invitations in the next couple of weeks and just wanted to make sure that everyone on your list should still be invited. The people you added a while ago, who I know you say are not going to come, sent us about 15 people over the amount of people that will fit in the room and since everyone else is a very close family or friend, I just wanted to make sure that they are should all still be on the list - if we don't get the no's we are expecting, some people are going to have to be told that they cannot come and of course no one wants that. Can you just double check the list and let me know? I am double checking mine and removing the guest of a single friend where I can for now. I hagte to even ask, because I know they are your father's brothers and sisters and cousins, but since we have such limited space, I want to avoid any problems later.
Thanks girls!!!
