question about etiquette in re: to e-party and wedding

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Posted by CloudNine

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Posted by little j

question - did they send you a gift or at least a card congratualtion you on engagement since they couldnt come to party?

if so, i would lean towards maybe inviting them.

if not, then leave it as it is..

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one of them sent a card with a gift card to BBB. the others sent nothing.

its more than 1 guest...its about 2 or 3 plus dates so say 6 people.
they are part of the 'group of friends' but they dont like FH and one of them whom i never had a problem with all of a sudden seems to ignore me for reasons i am unaware of....so my thing is...if you dont get an invite from me...would you really be wondering why? and if you get offended then i would ask why as well being that you act as if you dont like us so why should you care if you arent invited? i think they would just feel a little left out since everyone else would be invited but i almost hope they feel left out

oops i'm mean

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