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question about formal attire at a wedding

kassy30 Posted:

question about formal attire at a wedding

I am getting married on a saturday night and it is formal attire. My FH is from out west and they don't have weddings like we have here on LI. How do I let his family know that it is formal attire without being tacky?

FutureMrsPanuch Posted:

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you can just put Black tie on the bottom of the invite... many ppl will know that its formal

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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i would just tell them (word of mouth) that they need to be wearing suits / cocktail dresses

ETA: if it's black tie, then you should write 'black tie preferred' on the invitation ... if it's suits / dresses kind of formal, then word of mouth
silke Posted:

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I would put on the invite 'formal attire' or 'black tie optional' not everyone will come in a tux but they will get the point.

wedding_girl Posted:

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Posted by silke

I would put on the invite 'formal attire' or 'black tie optional' not everyone will come in a tux but they will get the point.



ITA
SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted:

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Posted by wedding_girl


Posted by silke

I would put on the invite 'formal attire' or 'black tie optional' not everyone will come in a tux but they will get the point.



ITA



Me too!
Tetelove Posted:

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I would put on the invite 'formal attire.' That way there's no way of them showing up under dressed...

0216bahama Posted:

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I have the same issue.. We too are getting married on a Saturday night with about 225 ppl. My FH is from a very small town in Mass. I dont want to have to write BLACK TIE but i am scared what some people might show up in if I dont@!!!!!!!

angelabarra12 Posted:

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i would put formal attire or black tie

Nina1010 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsPanuch

you can just put Black tie on the bottom of the invite... many ppl will know that its formal



I would do this so they at least get the hint to wear a suit
Jayla127 Posted:

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I would indicate 'formal affair' on the invite.

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