Question about inviting people to the wedding

Original post by Mickey3722

Mar 25, 2005 06:52 PM

We invited some people to the engagement party that now we dont want to come to the wedding ( FI doesnt really talk to them anymore) I know that who ever is invited to the engagement party should be invited to the wedding. Is it really bad of us if we dont invite these selected few? Please Help

MrsMichel07 Posted: Mar 27, 2005 09:22 PM

Re: Question about inviting people to the wedding

If you are trying to cut people off of your already LARGE guest list I think you should leave them out if you are not feeling them anymore and so forth.

I HAD a guest list of 160 people that I was trying to cut down b/c of the cost per person.

You know what, we couldn't and now we are on our way to Barbados to get married!

Listen do not invite people b/c u THINK u have to!! I had to go over my list countless times and say u know what this person doesn't need to be there sharing in a speciall part of my life when they are NOT a part of my everyday life.

Think about this as you go through ur list.

I wish you all the best on your upcomming marriage.

Mickey3722 Posted: Mar 28, 2005 10:26 AM

Re: Question about inviting people to the wedding

Posted by MrsMichel07

If you are trying to cut people off of your already LARGE guest list I think you should leave them out if you are not feeling them anymore and so forth.

I HAD a guest list of 160 people that I was trying to cut down b/c of the cost per person.

You know what, we couldn't and now we are on our way to Barbados to get married!

Listen do not invite people b/c u THINK u have to!! I had to go over my list countless times and say u know what this person doesn't need to be there sharing in a speciall part of my life when they are NOT a part of my everyday life.

Think about this as you go through ur list.

I wish you all the best on your upcomming marriage.

Thank You! And I wish you the same

danielleb Posted: Mar 28, 2005 11:34 AM

Re: Question about inviting people to the wedding

IMO-- The determing factor for me is -- if they DO come to the wedding, will I dread talking to them? If the answer is yes -- I am definately not inviting them. I'm not going to feel uncomfortable at my own wedding! That's my little 'test' when deciding who to invite.