should i delete her as a friend off of my myspace. me and FH were seriously considering deleting our whole pages b/c we don't need this garbage from anyone. i'd rather her not have access to what's going on in my life.
i really feel that yesterday was a way of her saying ' you think my blog was bad, watch this'...and then posted that awful bulletin to EVERYONE but had addressed it to me and FH. i really think it's become like a power or control issue. like she's saying just think of what i might do next to piss you off.
but do you think deleting her would only fuel the fire even more? i just don't want her to have access to my page...where she can check up on me and see stuff about the wedding. but since i have a lot of OOT long time friends that i want to stay in touch with..i rely on my myspace for a lot...and i don't want to totally give it up. what do you guys think?
TnJ041809
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I wouldn't delete your page. Your just showing her that this is really upsetting you which sounds like what she is trying to do. Don't give her any satisfaction. Just ignore her. hth
crazeee18
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i would delete her...
aliska21
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STOP STRESSING...she is just jealous of your fh and your happiness...which she shouldnt be..but anyway...i think you should call her or confront her, tell her what is her problem and not only that she should tell you that FACE TO FACE i really think you should confront her!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i mean who does that.... sorry i get really mad..about things like that....
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delete!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xBrunette
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OOo.... i would delete her and just make your page private... she wont be able to check your page... it might add fuel to the fire at first... but i think it would be best, because then you dont have to deal with the immaturity....
then again... it seems like it's hard for you to just forget about her and not read her blogs... what she says is messed up.. and she shouldn't be saying those things... she's just craving attention.. and the more you stress on it.. the more she's winning...
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I wouldn't delete. Just ignore her and be happy and kill her with kindess!!!!!
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plus if i deleted her i wouldn't be able to look at that stupid blog anymore..out of sight out of mind right?!?!
not just for her sake but for mine...if she's not my friend i can't see her page either and i think that's best. this way she can't use myspace as a vehicle to try and hurt me.
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plus if i deleted her i wouldn't be able to look at that stupid blog anymore..out of sight out of mind right?!?!
not just for her sake but for mine...if she's not my friend i can't see her page either and i think that's best. this way she can't use myspace as a vehicle to try and hurt me.
EXACTLY! if you delete her, you are showing her that you dont care about what she has to say.
he gives me butterflies
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i feel like myspace causes so many problems. if you want to delete it then go for it! liw can be your obsession!
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myspace has never caused me any problems...i'm still on the fence about deleting her as a friend so she can't see my page and i can't see hers (i think deleting my whole page is not an option for me)...and hello LIW is already becoming my obsession!!
he gives me butterflies
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myspace has never caused me any problems...i'm still on the fence about deleting her as a friend so she can't see my page and i can't see hers (i think deleting my whole page is not an option for me)...and hello LIW is already becoming my obsession!!
haha
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delete her and make your profile private. shes annoying me-and shes not even my FSIL!
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DLETE her and make your page private !
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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do NOT delete her.... it will just add fuel to the fire TRUST ME .... im about to graduate as a psychologist
And do NOT post anything more on your page about the wedding... There are other ways to keep in touch with OOTers.... We did survive as a human race before the age of computers.... You will find that they're are plenty of ways to let friends know the details... For ex, make a wedding website that the sister wouldnt be able to gain access to... She doesnt even have to know about it!
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i think maybe you're giving in too much. JMO, but I think you need to find a way to this roll off... deleting your page screams 'you win, you made me stressed out!' I know this is tough to ignore, but I think it's the only way if you don't want to have to drastically change your life. you're deleting your myspace now... but what's next?!?
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I wouldn't delete. Just ignore her and be happy and kill her with kindess!!!!!
I agree,just ignore and when you cross paths, be overly nice!
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Posted by Future Pepper
i think maybe you're giving in too much. JMO, but I think you need to find a way to this roll off... deleting your page screams 'you win, you made me stressed out!' I know this is tough to ignore, but I think it's the only way if you don't want to have to drastically change your life. you're deleting your myspace now... but what's next?!?
I completely agree, ignore her completely, show her that u dont care wat she thinks n writes by keeping everythin as is.
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dropping her from your friends list sounds like the retaliation of an 8th grader. i don't say this to insult you. in fact, about 2-3 weeks ago, some issues with a former friend came to a head and i wanted to do the same thing, but when i talked to FH about it, actually saying it out loud made me realize how it would sound/appear to others. just delete your pages if it really bothers you that much. these people are going to be your in-laws for the rest of your & FH's lives together, and doing something like that will only serve to make you look bad when it gets back to adults in the family. this is a case when it's SUPER crucial to ALWAYS TAKE THE HIGH ROAD.
**edited for a typo**
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Don't do anything, you'r stooping to her level and fueling the fire by deleting her from your friends, besides, she's going to find out a lot of details from your wedding anyway, after all, she's your FH's sister...Like I said before, just ignore her, be the bigger person...people like that feed off of attention
