Well you never know, it might not be.....but I understand how you're feeling. FH wasn't going to come home with me for the shower at all, and I was really upset....but then he was able to come after all so it worked out. But I get what you're feeling!!
Posted by Snick n Nick
Well you never know, it might not be.....but I understand how you're feeling. FH wasn't going to come home with me for the shower at all, and I was really upset....but then he was able to come after all so it worked out. But I get what you're feeling!!
Could his supposed day out with dad be just a ruse or cover up?
dont feel bad ..i know the day of my shower and my fh came home and said he was going to see skid roe at mohegan sun the night before and hes gonna stay over and he sees nothing wrong with not being at the shower to bring me there and thank our guests for coming.. i am so upset about it..we have been arguing for a week about this..
Posted by Sharron70
Could his supposed day out with dad be just a ruse or cover up?
Posted by Saram
dont feel bad ..i know the day of my shower and my fh came home and said he was going to see skid roe at mohegan sun the night before and hes gonna stay over and he sees nothing wrong with not being at the shower to bring me there and thank our guests for coming.. i am so upset about it..we have been arguing for a week about this..
Posted by NapaValleyGirl
Posted by Snick n Nick
Well you never know, it might not be.....but I understand how you're feeling. FH wasn't going to come home with me for the shower at all, and I was really upset....but then he was able to come after all so it worked out. But I get what you're feeling!!
Am I selfish for feeling this way? I just always kinda pictured him coming in and taking pics and basically just giving me a big hug!![]()
Posted by Snick n Nick
Posted by NapaValleyGirl
Posted by Snick n Nick
Well you never know, it might not be.....but I understand how you're feeling. FH wasn't going to come home with me for the shower at all, and I was really upset....but then he was able to come after all so it worked out. But I get what you're feeling!!
Am I selfish for feeling this way? I just always kinda pictured him coming in and taking pics and basically just giving me a big hug!![]()
I don't know....I felt the same way though, so if it's selfish than I was too. FH was supposed to have a Rugby playoff game but then they ended up losing and not having it....but if they did I'm not sure what he would have done. He kept saying he didn't want to disappoint the team but he also didn't want to disappoint me....so he knew how I felt about it.......I think I was so insecure about the shower and how I would feel, and I was so nervous, that I really needed him there. and I was happy he was there....!
maybe if you drop some hints that it's really important to you and that you would be disappointed if he's not there?
Posted by Snick n Nick
maybe if you drop some hints that it's really important to you and that you would be disappointed if he's not there?
No that totally stinks. Maybe he is lying to you about the game? To through you off of his tracks.
Posted by agittleman
No that totally stinks. Maybe he is lying to you about the game? To through you off of his tracks.
Posted by snwb08
wow. I had the EXACT same thing happen. the day of my shower was the first yankee game of the season ticket package I got fh for his bday. I told him he should go (not that he hesitated) but I was really worried that he wouldn't be there at all. I mean, the game is in the bronx and all that. then he said he would leave the game early to pick me up and take me back with all the gifts (honestly I still have my doubts and think his mom told him he HAD to help me but I won't ask him that).
At first I didn't care, then it bothered me, then I rationalized that why should he have to sit through the whole thing? He showed up right at the end and it was fine. I was just sad he didn't get to see the slideshow my sisters did for me and him.
Posted by NapaValleyGirl
Posted by snwb08
wow. I had the EXACT same thing happen. the day of my shower was the first yankee game of the season ticket package I got fh for his bday. I told him he should go (not that he hesitated) but I was really worried that he wouldn't be there at all. I mean, the game is in the bronx and all that. then he said he would leave the game early to pick me up and take me back with all the gifts (honestly I still have my doubts and think his mom told him he HAD to help me but I won't ask him that).
At first I didn't care, then it bothered me, then I rationalized that why should he have to sit through the whole thing? He showed up right at the end and it was fine. I was just sad he didn't get to see the slideshow my sisters did for me and him.
Hey, I wish he could make in time for the end but it's like a Mets farm team game. I think it's deep in NJ or something. I doubt he would make it back on LI on time.![]()
Posted by snwb08
Posted by NapaValleyGirl
Posted by snwb08
wow. I had the EXACT same thing happen. the day of my shower was the first yankee game of the season ticket package I got fh for his bday. I told him he should go (not that he hesitated) but I was really worried that he wouldn't be there at all. I mean, the game is in the bronx and all that. then he said he would leave the game early to pick me up and take me back with all the gifts (honestly I still have my doubts and think his mom told him he HAD to help me but I won't ask him that).
At first I didn't care, then it bothered me, then I rationalized that why should he have to sit through the whole thing? He showed up right at the end and it was fine. I was just sad he didn't get to see the slideshow my sisters did for me and him.
Hey, I wish he could make in time for the end but it's like a Mets farm team game. I think it's deep in NJ or something. I doubt he would make it back on LI on time.![]()
i know how you feel because i would have been really upset if he didn't come at all. maybe talk to him? it's a tough situation.... i'm sorry![]()
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Posted by Snick n Nick
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I hope he understands and makes it work somehow!!
