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Question about the flower girl

EmberLynn Posted:

Question about the flower girl

I'm having several flower girls, and one little girl imperticular is the youngest of six kids. I only know her mom from work, but in all honestly I only met her three youngest once. Would it be wrong of me to just invite the parents and their youngest daughter, or should I invite all of her five older siblings?

boobobunny Posted:

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Im not really sure....but I know that if I was a kid and my sister was invited to a wedding with my parents and I wasn't....I would be extremly hurt. Plus I think that my parents would have taken offense and not go to the wedding at all.

higginsk Posted:

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i think sometimes its more of a aburdon on a family to invite them with the kids. im sure if you explained it to her she'd be happy to leave the kids at home for a ngiht!

wood2be Posted:

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That could be a sticky situation! I think the best bet is to talk to the parents about it and see how they feel.

SummerBride06 Posted:

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that's a LOT of kids! talk with the parents, but i personally probably wouldn't invite them all, especially since you don't even know them!

Janice Posted:

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I only invited the flowergirl(my first cousin) and did not invite her 2 brothers. I think it is fine. It is her special day.

SFP0214 Posted:

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Why don't you just ask the mom what she prefers?

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