fh is NOT happy.... he was just told that they are not telling him about the shower until the last minute, then they expect him to bring me to the shower......
he's upset he's not being consulted because otherwise we might make plans on a particular weekend, and also hes not happy becuase its going to be obvious....we only go to 3 specific restaurants and they would probably pick a place that we never go to and it will be obvious when he asks me to go to the place...
UGHHHHHH.......
04Bride
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yes he knew. i am sorry you are going through this. it will work out i had a lot of issues with my shower and i ended up being TOTALLY surprised!
wc0143
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My DH helped plan mine with my mom & MOH.
kpny622
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My DH was totally aware and in on the trick...he did a good job, but was very nervous and stressed out, because I am very inquisitive and he had to keep lying, and also because we got lost on the way...tell your FH to look on the bright side - no lying, no stress, and he doesn't have to help - he can just go about his business as usual and be surprised as well! sorry you are going through this, though
alixgirl
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I know my FI know because my mom keeps calling him!
marymoon
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That's weird. Every shower i've ever heard of has had the FH involved in some way! Maybe they're afraid he'll spill? I know my FH is terrible at keeping secrets. I've known about every gift I've ever gotten from him. He's just bad like that, but I think he'll keep my shower a secret...at least I hope.! Maybe he should ask them why?
Summerbride04
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I don't know how far ahead he knew about it but it was his responsibility to bring me there.
JenniferLee111204
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my mom is constantly calling us to talk with him andwhen we go over to my parents house she always tells me to go in the other room so she can talk to him about my shower!!
so annoying...i want to know!! -Jenn
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August2004
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yes, my FI did know about the shower. He told me he didn't but he admitted after it was over that he knew the whole time.
janwinterbridejoy
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my dh knew as well
RedHead
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YES, his step mother tells him everything!
LIPrincess00
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Yes, my FI knows all about it and I never saw my mom or sister talking to him and as far as I know they dont have his phone #.
Nessa79
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FI knew and he was great at keeping it a secret. We go to every Sat Yankee Home Game so i thought it was a regular day,we went to buy all our tailgating stuff, beer hot dog, got the cooler packed and the grill ready we were all ready to go in the car, so i never suspected it he was really nervous now that i think about it!
nov2004bride
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My FI knows!! He said I am going to be totally shocked but now that he said that I expect anything and everything is going to be my shower
cocoa
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fh helped. he made the invites, he kept me away from the action, diverted phone calls, etc.
Boop2704
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My DH knew, I torchered him and he still wouldn't spill when it was to me.
september2004
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yes. i had him have his 'bachelor dinner' the same day/night so that people from OOT didn't have to make 2 trips and could carpool... we knew everything and helped coordinate!
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We both know when and where it is. We have something to do every weekend this summer so I kinda had to know so I could make sure I go!
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I have no idea if they will tell him but to be honest....I hope they don't. The only surprise he ever got me with was my proposal and even then I suspected something just not that! He is so bad at keeping secrets!! I have known every gift too! He gets mad because I figure them out but it is his fault!
Maybe it is better he doesn't know. Maybe they are planning something for him too. Or maybe it will too obvious if he does know so they don't want to tell him. Also, what makes you think they won't pick the three restaurants you always go to....then you will be stunned!!!!!!!
