So FH and I have always talked about how we don't want kids. Well, lately I've kinda been thinking maybe I do. How do you guys feel? Do you ladies want kids or no?
MrsHandsome2Be
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we want 2
cateydee
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definitely- that would be a dealbreaker for me.
SerenityEthereal
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well for a long time now we said we didn't and now I might be changing my mind. hmmm
NYYankeeGirl72
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FH and I have always said if we are blessed with kids then great!!! We want 2 as well....I want a boy and girl and he wants two girls....I told him TWO GIRLS!!! Poor FH we are all going to have him wrapped around our fingers if he gets his wish....
mbscheer
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I can't have kids which unfortunately we didn't find out for sure till after we were engaged. FH has been great about it and we plan to adopt. Whatever we get blessed with we will take.
Lu2700
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Posted by cateydee
definitely- that would be a dealbreaker for me.
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soontobemrsag
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I already havea a beautiful daughter & id like 2 more kids - thats why we moved up our wedding date to get pregnant quicker.
JoanneAndJustin
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It doesn't matter how we feel, it matters how you and your FH feel.... I'd talk to FH first to be sure he might want kids, too... otherwise it could be a very messy situation if he doesn't.
To answer your question, we want 2 kids.
Ivansgirl
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We definitely want kids. I say in 3 years...he says in 2....we will see
stinenandy2010
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Posted by JoanneAndJustin
It doesn't matter how we feel, it matters how you and your FH feel.... I'd talk to FH first to be sure he might want kids, too... otherwise it could be a very messy situation if he doesn't.
To answer your question, we want 2 kids.
ita....this actually happened in my pre-cana class! they went around and asked everyone how many children they wanted, well they get to this guy and he says 'none' and his fiance looked horrified, she had no idea, she wanted at least 2!!!
as for fh & i we definitely want 2, i could go as high as 4.
Lsorrent
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We want kids. Definitely 2, maybe 3.
rocketsummer17
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Yes we defiantely do...one biological and one adopted
kimmaymb20
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I def want kids. FH is amazing with them.
FutureMrsSoltan
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we want 2 1
angel1219eyez
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yupp i want at least 2..whatever happens after that happens!
CloudNine
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we want kids. FH has 2 little boys already so that was something that we spoke about very early in the relationship..if he wanted more. children are a huge deal and i think you should discuss it again with him, he may have changed his mind as well!
mosh424
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yes we want kids
Jna2010
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we both want to have a honeymoon baby.... we want 4 kids (or at least thats the plan now, ask me again after the first one lolllll)
italgal
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NO WAY! NO HOW! NEVER!!! One of the reasons that FH & I are so compatable is that we feel the same on this issue. We are too much into eachother,doing what we want, when we want, for as long as we want to bring a child into this world. Call us selfish......we can live with that just fine. So many people have kids without thinking about giving up everything for those kids to insure they are put on the right track. It's a commitment we are not willing to take. It's just not for us. It can't fit into our lifestyle. For those of you who want kids, God bless you & good luck!
