Question for you lovely ladies....

Original post by SerenityEthereal

Jun 28, 2009 11:05 PM

So FH and I have always talked about how we don't want kids. Well, lately I've kinda been thinking maybe I do. How do you guys feel? Do you ladies want kids or no?

christine2010 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 08:53 AM

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i used to not want kids & FH was aware of that. however a couple of years ago when out to dinner with FH's parents we where talking about kids & FHs dad said that he would like us to have kids. since then FHs dad has passed away & we have decided to have kids. i would like 1 & 1, but what ever happens is fine with me.

our new issue is when we are going to have them.

Christine N Ralph Posted: Jun 29, 2009 09:10 AM

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We want them...definatly not now...but sometime in the future

MrsC2010 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 09:30 AM

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yes we definitely want kids, but not for a few more years. we would love to have 2 kids.

MNM91710 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 09:40 AM

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Posted by Jna2010

we both want to have a honeymoon baby.... we want 4 kids (or at least thats the plan now, ask me again after the first one lolllll)

Same here, honeymoon baby! lol We want them asap!

JillandJoe Posted: Jun 29, 2009 09:41 AM

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im dying for kids right now!! We have like four friends who just had kids and each have a new baby cousin under the age of one, plus cousins of all ages... we know we want between 2 and 3 kids. We r going to start trying about six months after the wedding

LadyC23 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 09:46 AM

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I had said for the longest time, that I did not want kids. Now, I have the baby itch and FH couldnt be happier since he always wanted children.

StellaStar13 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 09:56 AM

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It's funny, I always loved kids but never really had the desire to have them until I met FH. As soon as I knew he was 'the one', my bio clock started kicking. We both agreed that we don't want to 'catch the silver bullet' on our hineymoon BUT will prob start trying a few month into the marriage. We are both in our 30's and ready. We want a min of 3.....I'm hoping we can have 4.

I agree w/what other ladies are saying, if you are changing your view point on this it's best to speak to your FH. It's possible after talking to you he too may change his mind.

Good luck!

MikesBride2B Posted: Jun 29, 2009 10:04 AM

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FH already has a little girl (she's 6 1/2) and we definitely want more....I want to start right away (like...now haha) but FH keeps saying he wants to 'do it right this time' (he wasn't married when he had his daughter).

We probably won't start trying for another 3 years I have to finish my masters and we'd like to own a house...but...we'll see what happens.

JAAMS Posted: Jun 29, 2009 10:41 AM

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Yesss we want kids... 3 biological 1 adopted. I'd LOVE 2 and 2

We won't start trying until about 5 years after the wedding though... I'll be 29, FH will be 30.

iHeartMoogle Posted: Jun 29, 2009 10:41 AM

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I want a hockey team!!!!! FH wants 2. We've settled on 4. I want them ASAP. He wants to wait like 6 years!!! We've settled on 3 years.

jayepyt Posted: Jun 29, 2009 10:52 AM

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we have 2 already maybe we want 2 more

kimmie343 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 10:55 AM

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

It doesn't matter how we feel, it matters how you and your FH feel.... I'd talk to FH first to be sure he might want kids, too... otherwise it could be a very messy situation if he doesn't.

To answer your question, we want 2 kids.

I agree....i think if this is something you really want you need to talk to your FH about it. Even if its just a thought. It could become a messy situation down the road.

MrsCM Posted: Jun 29, 2009 11:03 AM

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This is something you should definitely bring up. I'd say very little and wait for a response and go from there since you aren't positive, see what his feelings are.

Call me totally nutso but I've known my whole life that I will have 2 & 1 . I don't know how, I just know. Everyone says I'm crazy. My mom went to a psychic lately which I don't believe in or put any stock into and she told her the same thing so mom stopped teasing me about it!

FH wants two but is ok with 3! He wants kids pretty much ASAP. Whenever I used to say 'Guess what?' he used to respond with 'You're pregnant!' and it got old real quick and then occasionally I'd say yes and he'd getsooooo excited and then heartbroken I had to stop doing it to him. I thought it would freak him out once or twice and that would be that.

I want to wait a little while. We had a scare recently and it just isn't what I want yet. Give me at least another year, maybe two. I still have just a little bit of traveling to do still.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 11:06 AM

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My baby switch has not been flipped yet...we plan on in having kids, but not for a looonnggg time.

gonzalezm3 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 12:44 PM

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FH wants a honeymoon baby - me I want a kid when we can afford one, have a house, and are stable. FH doesn't care if its a boy or girl. I would love at least 1 girl. We hope to have 2 - 4.