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So we are watching a show where the family have 5 kids (all girls!!!!) and from there we start to talk about what are we going to do when we dont want more kids.. I told him he should get a Vasectomy and he said that I should be the one getting 'fixed'.. So we start telling our points of view and then he decided that he wants to know what other women think about this subject... WHat do you girls plan to do when that point ir reached...
I guess its all up to the couple...whoever is more willing to go through with the procedure. If neither want to...well it looks like protection/bc forever. lol.
I'll get my tubes tied... no big deal to me. You can get it done while you're in the hospital after having a baby. That's what my mom did.
A vasectomy is a relatively simple outpatient procedure. Tubal ligatation, aka getting your tubes tied is major surgery. No question about it, the man should be the one to get 'fixed'. The procedure is a lot less risky, plus the woman has been through enough giving birth! Just my opinion.
Well....FH and I do not want any kids and being on the pill is not exactly healthy when you get into your late 30's so he said he would get fixed... although I don't know if they will do one if you don't already have kids.... am I wrong about that???
Just to jump in....If I have c-sections and I happen to be open, then I don't mind getting my tubes tied. However, should I give birth naturally, there is no way I am going in for surgery when he can do an in and out procedure.
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
hmmmf havent thought about it... i really have no idea... i dont think either one of us would have surgery... I think we'd prob just 'wing' it and hope for the best![]()
Posted by MrsDtoBe09
I'll get my tubes tied... no big deal to me. You can get it done while you're in the hospital after having a baby. That's what my mom did.
IMO i think the guy should get it done... more so then not, it's reversible for the guy.. if they girl gets her tubes tied, that's it no more kid.... one day you might decide to have more kids, even if you have 2, after 5 i dunno.. lol... but i've had this conversation with a bunch of married women with children, and 1 out of 5 got her tubes tied, the others their husbands got the 'V' ... plus if they women are still young, they have more problems as they get older with getting the tubes tied, men dont have as much risk in health because of it.... I talked to FH about it once, and he's not to sure, but i'm sorry i'm not risking my life, because he doesn't want to get snipped.. lol...
Posted by panjay
A vasectomy is a relatively simple outpatient procedure. Tubal ligatation, aka getting your tubes tied is major surgery. No question about it, the man should be the one to get 'fixed'. The procedure is a lot less risky, plus the woman has been through enough giving birth! Just my opinion.
Me three on winging it. If god really wants me to have one more, well I guess I will!
I would probably do it. I have so many issues down there that I will probably have to get something removed anyway.
FH already said that he would do it because it's such a simple procedure for men!
FH is going to take care of his business!! he knows that already, im not going to be on the pill forever!
I'm with the 'winging it' club. If push came to shove for some reason, he'd be the one getting snipped since its the healthier/easier choice. I don't think I'd ever want either of us to do anything before I'm 35..as long as I'm still at the age of a healthy pregnancy I wouldn't want to make any final decisions...
Posted by little34
Well....FH and I do not want any kids and being on the pill is not exactly healthy when you get into your late 30's so he said he would get fixed... although I don't know if they will do one if you don't already have kids.... am I wrong about that???
well get mine removed so i dont get AF anymore
Vasectomy. I've been the one on birth control so I think it should be his turn to do something! lol
