Question girls....

I asked FSIL to be in the bridal party over a month ago.. And she hasn't given us an answer.

Should we take it as a no?

FH did call her the other day, and she never answered. She's been online, and never answered.

IMO I would be taking that as a NO

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Posted by SugaBeans

thats weird. i would confront her about it and tell her to be honest with you.

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It's so hard to get a hold of her, and when you do, she says 'I'll call you back' and then never calls.



And sad part is, poor FH gets the blame for when they don't talk.

I'm just taking it as a no, I've waited long enough. FH said to move along with the dresses too and take it as a no.

I waited this long to go order the dresses.

I at least want them ordered by my 6 month mark.

Thanks girls.

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Posted by bella1028

sadly I guess it is a no....do FH and her have a decent relationship?

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They have a great relationship... But who knows..

It's sad that it's a no, but I need to get these dresses ordered and all.

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

I would want an answer ... I know it's obviously a no, but I need closure on everything. Can you send her an email that says, I hate to bug you, but I need an answer, yes or no???

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Well let's just say this

I left her comments on both myspace and facebook, and on facebook, where her entire family can see the comment, she deleted it.

So I'm taking it as a no. I'm not the type to need closure.. It'll just get me even more p.oed because she coulda given me a no a long time ago and avoided me going nuts for a month.

She's been online and sent me an instant message saying thank you for her birthday wishes. And I asked her to be in the BP BEFORE her birthday. She even called FH the other day, he called her back, she talked to him for a lil, said she'd call back, and never did.. That's what it's been like the past few times he called her.

I'm going to David's later so I wanted to know before then.

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Posted by chrispar

If she hasn't given you an answer by now I would take it as a no...that really stinks though that she hasn't gotten back to you

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yea, at least you know your sister in law rocks the house and will be apart of ur bridal party!! i love jackie!! lol

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Posted by mnd1202

i would say something to her and then i would take it as a no....or just take it as a no and say to her well we asked u and u never got back to us and we couldnt wait to the last minute etc..... thats not right she should at least answer u yes or no

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that's what FH said to me.

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Posted by BellaChandella

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Posted by chrispar

If she hasn't given you an answer by now I would take it as a no...that really stinks though that she hasn't gotten back to you

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yea, at least you know your sister in law rocks the house and will be apart of ur bridal party!! i love jackie!! lol

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Yea Jackie is very excited about the wedding...she calls me with the countdown...lol

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Posted by chrispar

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Posted by BellaChandella

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Posted by chrispar

If she hasn't given you an answer by now I would take it as a no...that really stinks though that she hasn't gotten back to you

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yea, at least you know your sister in law rocks the house and will be apart of ur bridal party!! i love jackie!! lol

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Yea Jackie is very excited about the wedding...she calls me with the countdown...lol

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aw i love her..

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Posted by heathermatt

i would take it as a no...and that is f*** up....I am guessign they are not so close...??

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no they're close. shes like my sister, which is why i can't understand why she wouldnt answer right away. but whatever. i'm not gonna stress over it anymore. too much other stuff to worry about now!!!

lol

thanks girls<3