I was listening to Z100 this morning and they were talking about a woman who was;
A Surrogate Mom and gave birth to 12 babies as a LIVING! She has made roughly $100,000.- per Birth.
WOULD YOU EEVR BE A SURROGATE MOM? Either for cash or for maybe a friend or family member?
mac123
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Its going to be hard enough to give birth and go through all the changes for my own children, besides i t would be to hard to give the baby away for any amount of money
Kimbalina
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I don't want kids of my own.. but I think I would do this to help out my best friends or maybe a family member. After I do it once, honestly I could see me doing it for a couple who is TTC and having issues. BUT yes I would want my health care cost paid and money for carrying a baby for that time.
dannisayz
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Heck no! I don't even want to think about the mental issues I'd have to go through about giving the baby to someone else. Just knowing what mother's who give their babies up for adoption go through is enough to keep me away.
I've thought about it once, for a gay friend of mine, but I'd only do it for them if I were a single woman because FH wouldn't allow it.
mRm2008
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I don't think I would be able to do it for someone else
GinaBambina08
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Oh boy! I know I couldn't do that...and I definitely couldn't make a living out of it
binx214
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When i was growingup i never wanted to have a child of my own but i said id always be a surrogate mother for someone who needed it nnot for money but for family or friend and i still would even though i have one of my own.
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I would ONLY do it for my sister. I know for sure that I would not be able to give birth to a child and have that child taken away.
But I admire the people that are able to do that for strangers. Whether for me money or not, its a major miracle for someone who cant have children and find a person for can do this for them.
kellybean
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I think carrying a child and giving it up is a very hard very personal choice...that being said I would do it in a heart beat for family....also for a few friends of mine that are amazing couples and would be amazing parents but lack the equpiment to have ababy on their own.
minibride08
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Good Question. No, I wouldn't do this... but good for her- some people want kids and can't have them- so I think this is positive....
AR31
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i don't know if i could.. but God forbid a family member would need this sort of help, I would like to think that I'm brave enough to step up..
xXxNovember08xXx
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no i would not be able to do this...
ant n tilde
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I would only do this for my sister and luckily she has two kids already so i guess its easy for me to say at this point.
Kimbalina
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See that what I thought was automatic- NOPE, then I started thinking about it...and it was kind of intresting.
Stephlover817
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Well, I definitely couldn't do it for a living but I would do it for my sisters.
deb08
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after having my own- i dont think no i know i could not do it - i loved being pregant and missed after i had my kids- but to go home empty handed after everythng no sorry- i could not do it
bella1028
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I would never ever choose to...but I would ONLY for my 2 sisters if I had to
yelley77
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good question, Kim!
I would absolutely be a surrogate. If I can help someone complete their family, I'd be glad to do it
snwb08
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i agree for my sisters. I would give them my eggs too. Only them.
xXxNovember08xXx
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i keep thinking about it back and forth.. but im still stuck on no i cant... i dont want to become somewhat attached then have to give up the baby... either to a friend or cousin..i cant do it... maybe bc i kno my mom did that to me i think its too close tohome.