Question of the day (Friday)

rahana316 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 07:36 AM

Question of the day (Friday)

God forbid, I don't want this to happen to anyone. What if you found out a few months after you get married, your DH was cheating on you. You didn't see it coming, you thought everything was perfect. How would you handle this knowing all the effort (financially and emtionally) you put into this marriage?

This happened to a friend of mine only she found out the day before and she went ahead. I don't know what she was thinking. Funny thing is 2 years after, they're still together.

JnD110808 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 07:40 AM

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This happened to a guy in the neighborhood. Him and his wife were high school sweet hearts and they got married when they were 26-27yrs old and three months into the marriage she caught him cheating with someone from work. They were divorced within 6 months. Terrible. He's an idiot bc she was a really nice girl..

AmandaLynn04 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 07:40 AM

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Well, I do think it is possible for people to move on from that -- some people do have the power to forgive -- I'm not one of those people.

I'd have to get a divorce. I couldn't live with someone who cheated on me, no matter how sorry he was, or how much it would never happen again.

I just couldn't live my life always wondering if he was REALLY at work, or REALLY with his friends... etc.

OR, maybe I'd kill him.

rahana316 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 07:43 AM

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Well, I do think it is possible for people to move on from that -- some people do have the power to forgive -- I'm not one of those people.

I'd have to get a divorce. I couldn't live with someone who cheated on me, no matter how sorry he was, or how much it would never happen again.

I just couldn't live my life always wondering if he was REALLY at work, or REALLY with his friends... etc.

OR, maybe I'd kill him.

You're right. I have to be honest. I dont know how some people can just put this on the back burner and go one. IT would kill me and I could never trust him. I would be watching his every move and become so insecure of myself. I couldn't do it.

Joette_Terese Posted: Oct 12, 2007 07:58 AM

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Well, I do think it is possible for people to move on from that -- some people do have the power to forgive -- I'm not one of those people.

I'd have to get a divorce. I couldn't live with someone who cheated on me, no matter how sorry he was, or how much it would never happen again.

I just couldn't live my life always wondering if he was REALLY at work, or REALLY with his friends... etc.

OR, maybe I'd kill him.

My sentiment exactly. I could never forgive.

Mizzdimple Posted: Oct 12, 2007 08:31 AM

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I mentally cannot forget things...I hang things over everyone's head...so I dont think it will work out.

Super2star Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:27 AM

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Posted by rahana316

God forbid, I don't want this to happen to anyone. What if you found out a few months after you get married, your DH was cheating on you. You didn't see it coming, you thought everything was perfect. How would you handle this knowing all the effort (financially and emtionally) you put into this marriage?

This happened to a friend of mine only she found out the day before and she went ahead. I don't know what she was thinking. Funny thing is 2 years after, they're still together.

I would leave him...no if's and's or but's...

AS Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:29 AM

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I'll kill them both!!

Sugaplum08 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:30 AM

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i wouldnt be able to look at him so the marriage wouldnt work out.

DomTriniBRL Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:34 AM

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knowing my temper, I would kill them both. But in all honesty, I would just leave him. If he was thinking of cheating on me, he should have thought about that before marrying me.

Mici n KC Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:41 AM

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Well, I do think it is possible for people to move on from that -- some people do have the power to forgive -- I'm not one of those people.

I'd have to get a divorce. I couldn't live with someone who cheated on me, no matter how sorry he was, or how much it would never happen again.

I just couldn't live my life always wondering if he was REALLY at work, or REALLY with his friends... etc.

OR, maybe I'd kill him.

Ditto