Question on whether to invite a certain guest or not
Jax1127
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Question on whether to invite a certain guest or not
I used to be very close with this girl 3 years ago. I was in her bridal party and we were best buds. Nothing happened but for whatever reason we have sort of just lost touch. I still like her as a person and a friend but I have not spoken to her in seriously over a year. I'm toying with the idea of whether or not I should invite her and her husband to our wedding. If I wasn't in her bridal party it would be a non-issue but I feel kinda bad about being in her party but then not even inviting her to my wedding. I wouldn't consider her to be in the BP (although perhaps should i?) but is it wrong if i don't even invite her at all?
Do you feel if someone has you in their BP that you should have them in yours?
MarryTheNight24
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If you two haven't even spoke in the past year then she should not be in your wedding. Do you have to have someone in your wedding if you were in theirs? No. Me personally...If I were in a friends wedding and they were still in my life some way, shape, or form I would most likely have them in mine. I wouldn't want that person wondering why I was important enough to be in theirs but they aren't important enough to be in mine. If I haven't spoke to them in over a year I doubt I would even invite them to the wedding at all. I don't know when your wedding is, but you def have time to reach out to her and try to restart your friendship again.
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Kristin31613
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No! Do what is best for you and not what you feel might be obligated!
KristyANDMatt224
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don't feel obligated to invite them!!!!
I've been in 4 wedding parties and none of those girls are in mine to be honest.. FH was in some parties of people who aren't on our list at all. Life happens and people drift apart! I wouldn't invite someone out of obligation. I feel like that makes it even more awkward if they say yes!
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Posted by Jax1127
I used to be very close with this girl 3 years ago. I was in her bridal party and we were best buds. Nothing happened but for whatever reason we have sort of just lost touch. I still like her as a person and a friend but I have not spoken to her in seriously over a year. I'm toying with the idea of whether or not I should invite her and her husband to our wedding. If I wasn't in her bridal party it would be a non-issue but I feel kinda bad about being in her party but then not even inviting her to my wedding. I wouldn't consider her to be in the BP (although perhaps should i?) but is it wrong if i don't even invite her at all?
Do you feel if someone has you in their BP that you should have them in yours?
WOW- I feel right now your my TWIN!!!!!!!!!! I understand what you are going through because I am going through the same thing. My BESTEST friend I was her second choice of MOH and we grew apart after she got married. basically b/c of the things her husband was doing to her. Anyways recently i spoke to her and she said she is so upset that she didnt even come with me for my dress... Listen I was in her BP and she is not in mine. MY close friends and family are in my BP and those are the ones who stuck with me no matter what. I dont believe that if I was in theres they should be in mine. But I will invite her to my wedding. If she comes she comes if not OH WELL. I have so many new friends that are more freinds to me now than anything. I miss her freindship b/c we both read each others minds lol.. but Dont do antyhing you feel you are going to regret. Invite her to the wedding. you dont need to put her in your BP
