rant about fh's boss

ok so it's less than a month to the wedding and drama galore...

fh's boss recently separated from his wife. they had eloped, have been together for about 2 years and recently discovered that she is unable to have children. he says that they're not working out though because she's too even-keeled and they're incompatible etc etc.. he basically moves out the next day, sets himself up in a new apartment and buys all new furniture in a week and was planning on throwing a huge housewarming in less than a month. heartless?

so last week, fh's boss sends me a really pretentious email about how he's going to put together the bachelor party for fh and says that he trusts that i'll be ok with that. it wasn't really a question that he was asking me - just a statement. his boss goes on to say that he's asked fh but fh has been evasive about it. duh? nevermind that fh has a best man~

fh obviously feels really sorry for his boss but the guy obviously has coping problems! he basically invited himself into the bridal party and has already told fh that he wants to throw fh a 'proper bachelor party.' something that neither of us want. even worse is fh's boss keeps pushing fh's buttons about 'it's his wedding and he should have a party etc etc...' i'm so angry that i don't even want to see this guy's face at the wedding now!!!! argh!!!!

Yeah Def habe your Fh say something to him. Thank you so much for your kind gesture, but my bestman is throwing has already planned one.

ever watch The Office? he sounds like Michael Scott.....just doesn't 'get it'......

random comparison but it reminded me of that show

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Posted by kbond06

ever watch The Office? he sounds like Michael Scott.....just doesn't 'get it'......

random comparison but it reminded me of that show

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That's too funny I was totally thinking that when I was reading her comment.

Wow he sounds really intrusive in you and your FH's life. I can't imagine having a boss like that. My relationship with my boss is more on the Hi, Bye, How was your weekend kind of level.

i think the problem is their office is just really small. before, they had like 4 guys and 1 girl but last week the last girl left so now it's an office of 4 guys. it seems like they don't do any work but talk about fh's bachelor's party too.

fh feels bad for his boss and he also thinks that his boss was horsing around but didn't mean ill. that to him trumps my feeling like his boss was just plain rude. in an office that small, i think he finds it difficult to say something more direct... argh~

its your FH's job to stand up to the boss and just say plain & simple, 'Thanks, but no thanks. My best man is covering it--and when he does everything we'll let you know the plans and you're more than welcome to come.'

that's it....the guy can be pushy all he wants but if your FH pussyfoots around the issue and isn't being straight up---this guy will keep at it. he has to be able to just say it and be done with it all!

i hear where you gals are coming from... thanx so much for the advice and listening to me rant! just realized that i should probably post this on the 08 board instead of the bride helping bride one... sorry gals~~~