rave and a vent...

rave:
so last night we were at my cousins sweet 16, and of course majority of my dad's side of the family was there... and this is the first time since we've been engaged that i've seen some of these family members, (some my FH has not even met) they had such kind words and treated FH like he was part of the family (well he is and will be) they told stories about their marriages and that there is always a 'bad' day but the good days come shortly after...blah blah blah...it was soo nice , we got so many compliments and 'how adorable we are together' and lots of other things too..

then to a vent:

so being that it was my cousins sweet 16, her parents had some friends that they invited and i see them at like every b-day party etc, and they weren't on the guest list , ( i dont even think we even thought about them) and last night 3 of then basically invited themselves to our wedding, saying if they dont get an invite they will show up anyways

i was very pissed! i shot my mom and dad looks and they both just rolled their eyes, im gonna have to call then and discuss this...ha ha ah

sorry so long
thanks for listening

I'm glad you had a nice time, but seriously, people are just so rude! I had a girl INVITE HERSELF TO BE A BRIDESMAID Really? Who does that?

Anywho, if these are people your family friends for a long time, maybe you should just invite them but make sure your parents know it was rude and they'll have to pay for them!

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

I'm glad you had a nice time, but seriously, people are just so rude! I had a girl INVITE HERSELF TO BE A BRIDESMAID Really? Who does that?

Anywho, if these are people your family friends for a long time, maybe you should just invite them but make sure your parents know it was rude and they'll have to pay for them!

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ha no they are not coming lol
and i dont think my parents had planned on inviting them either lol

ugh....for people just inviting htmeselves to your wedding. I say hire security

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Posted by tinadansr

ugh....for people just inviting htmeselves to your wedding. I say hire security

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can i rent your penguins for security?

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Posted by Summertimegal424

rave:
so last night we were at my cousins sweet 16, and of course majority of my dad's side of the family was there... and this is the first time since we've been engaged that i've seen some of these family members, (some my FH has not even met) they had such kind words and treated FH like he was part of the family (well he is and will be) they told stories about their marriages and that there is always a 'bad' day but the good days come shortly after...blah blah blah...it was soo nice , we got so many compliments and 'how adorable we are together' and lots of other things too..

then to a vent:

so being that it was my cousins sweet 16, her parents had some friends that they invited and i see them at like every b-day party etc, and they weren't on the guest list , ( i dont even think we even thought about them) and last night 3 of then basically invited themselves to our wedding, saying if they dont get an invite they will show up anyways

i was very pissed! i shot my mom and dad looks and they both just rolled their eyes, im gonna have to call then and discuss this...ha ha ah

sorry so long
thanks for listening

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Um excuse me Colleen, but I dont think my inviting myself last night should be this big of a deal....I want the free food!!!!!!

Thats nuts though...I don't get it

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Posted by Summertimegal424

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Posted by tinadansr

ugh....for people just inviting htmeselves to your wedding. I say hire security

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can i rent your penguins for security?

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i so want to be one of those penguins!

We had a bday party for Fh's brother not too long ago and two friends were there that aren't invited to the wedding, and they were discussing among themselves and then told me they were going to crash my wedding.
What is with people?