Hi Ladies! I havent been on in a while because I was alittle sad at how much money I have been paying for deposits etc. Since I have been paying for everything with cash...I am now poor! LOL
I know it will all come together in the end but right now I have to put some things on hault.
We are all amazing for planning our weddings around this time with the economy the way it is.
Thank you all for all your advice and help. Wouldnt have a clue what to do without my LIW girls! Corinne
JennyAPH
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Hang in there.. it seems rough right now but it will get better
I totally understand.. we cut back on so much and its frustrating, but well worth it!
coldasice217
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Welcome back!
I'm sure we're all in the same situation to one degree or another. I know I've been to the point of wanting to vomit uncontrollably at all the money that is going to be bleeding out.
gina409
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i know how u r feeling and its so true that althogh a wedding can be perfect and wonderful its also expensive and stressful..we r just trying to cut bck on stuff such as dining out,shopping and things like that so we can save a bit more..hang in there everything will work out fine...hth
xosweetiexo
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I feel ya...I think we are all on the same boat.... well those who are paying for their own weddings or a big majority of it. My FH and I are paying for the whole wedding ourselves, and we make decent money- but WOW I feel like I'm poor now!!!!!! Everytime I have some extra cash, it goes to one of our vendors. I want to pay them as soon as I have it and my FH stopped me and said 'why do you feel the need to give our money away as soon as we have it?' I just dont want to be stressed over paying for this and paying for that all at one time... I want to chop away the money that I owe little by little. We are trying to give money now every other week so we don't feel as poor anymore lol I'm trying not to worry either, and I know it's hard..... but if it's what you really want... it'll happen and in the end everything will come together.
gbrwneyez1581
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I know how you feel. My has been making all the payments to the RH, but now $ is tight for him, and FH and just payed 3K last week to the RH and on Sunday I am giving my florist 500. I just keep telling myself everything will work out, hang in there