Ughh people piss me off!!! One of my Bm's my cousin backed out because of the cost of the dress. WHICH AGGRIVATES ME because when I asked her to be in the Bm party I said to her I know that its a little tough for you finacially but I just wanted to ask you b.c I would love for you to be In the bridal party I told her that I wouldn't go over a certain amount for the BM dresses and everything and I would give her time to think about it. BUT SHE WAS LIKE noOOO i really want to be in it and stuff so I was like ok cool. SOO when I went with my girls to try on dresses there were TWO that I loved one is the one I ended up picking and the other one was a little more like $50 more. My other BM's were ok with paying that b.c they loved the dress but I went with the cheaper on b.c of her. I love the dress dont get me wrong but it just annoys me. That after that today she tells me she is backing out. Why do people do that? I dont get it. If I didn't have the money I'd feel weird saying No but I would to avoid all this ******** now I have a bok ordered for her and im just pissed. I don't know If I should ask someone else or just leave it as it is. I feel kind of weird asking someone else now. UGHH Im just so aggrivated lol sorry for this long angered RANT!! I just needed to get it out.
ILOVEBRIAN2008
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i cant believe she wouldback out after already saying that she would be fine with it and really wanted to be in the bridal party
Cntthinkofone
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i cant believe she wouldback out after already saying that she would be fine with it and really wanted to be in the bridal party
I know thats what makes me so mad, its not like she said yes not knowing what she was gettting herself into I explained everything to her. I am just beyond annoyed.
ChristineAaron08
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That is just so rude of her to back out after accepting
I would ask someone else, but I know that may be awkward asking someone as a backup. She will probably be upset tht youreplaced her, but who cares about her- she shouldn't have backed out! haha.
Can you get away with not asking someone else, or will you be lopsided (not that it really matters if the BP is uneven- people do it all the time)
Cntthinkofone
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That is just so rude of her to back out after accepting
I would ask someone else, but I know that may be awkward asking someone as a backup. She will probably be upset tht youreplaced her, but who cares about her- she shouldn't have backed out! haha.
Can you get away with not asking someone else, or will you be lopsided (not that it really matters if the BP is uneven- people do it all the time)
LoL well actually it is even now that she dropped out. I had one more bridesmaid so i was going to have 2 bridesmaids walk down with one guy. But Now I wont have to do that its 4bm and 4 gm. I think I may just leave it like that and ask the florist if maybe she can just make my MOH bok a little bit bigger or just add more flowers to my BOk or maybe do something with my BOK. I don't want to have an extra bok. I am sure they can work something out.
bemyyoko
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that *****. i'm sorry you hafta deal with it.
If you have someone you'd like to ask, to replace her then go right ahead. you still have plenty of time before your wedding to do that.
Otherwise, leave it be. Call your florist and see what you can do about the BO-K if they wont take the price off perhaps you can upgrade something or throw in something extra instead of her bo-k
