really dumb question.

cresthollowbride Posted: Jan 21, 2005 04:17 PM

really dumb question.

i am a bm in an upcoming wedding. now i know i have to give a shower and wedding gift. but do we give the bride a gift at the bachorlette party as well??dumb right?? lol

Summer05 Posted: Jan 21, 2005 04:20 PM

Re: really dumb question.

There are no bumb wedding questions!!
No you do not give the bride a gift at the bachlorette party, but usually the bridesmaids pay for the bride if you go out to dinner to a club, bar, strip club or wherever.

jimmysgrl Posted: Jan 21, 2005 04:21 PM

Re: really dumb question.

Yea, you don't have to give a gift unless its some thing extremely embarressing, etc.

divabride Posted: Jan 21, 2005 04:28 PM

Re: really dumb question.

I usually give a combination gift at the shower. Something from her registry and something naughty . As far as being a bm - I would get her a cute tiara or a teeshirt for the bachelorette party.

ML110 Posted: Jan 21, 2005 05:51 PM

Re: really dumb question.

i was in a wedding in july, and what we did is just gave the bride gag gifts at the bachelorette party like in expensive lingerie, edible underwear, etc.... just a little token, nothin too over the top. have fun!!